My boyfriend has alot of friends that are girls....?

Okay, so my boyfriend has ALOT of friends that are girls and yes im kind of paranoid since i've been cheated on in my past relationships. We always argue about him hanging out with his girl friends alone. He always brings up that im a hyprocrite since i always hangout with my bestfriend who is a guy. But my guy friend is most likely gay he just wont come out yet %26amp;%26amp; i've known him since 1st grade. My boyfriends girl friends are slutty like and some know i get jealous and purposely piss me off by saying ';hey my love!'; and hugging him for a long time infront of me.





i always invite my boyfriend whenever me and my bestfriend hangout and my boyfriend SOMETIMES invites me to hang with him and his girls that are friends.





He always says im jealous and it pisses me off cause im not JEALOUS, im effing paranoid cause there sluts.





so my question is, how do i get him to invite me? like why would he want them to just hangout when i always invite him? ugh please help. btw, im 15 and he's 17. We've been together for 4 months now.My boyfriend has alot of friends that are girls....?
You need to trust him. Some guys just have more friends that are girls compared to others who mostly hang out with guys. Just how it is, and if you two are dating you should trust him, though I can see if you've been cheated on before why it may be difficult.





As for the ';Hey my love!'; bit though and hugging him for a long time, I'd bring that bit up to your boyfriend that you don't like it. If it was a hi and a fairly quick hug, I'd say not worry but it's not. Just tell him you don't like it, and hopefully then he will have the sense to mention it to his friends that do it that it makes you feel ill at ease and to at least not do it around you.My boyfriend has alot of friends that are girls....?
i used to have alot of guy friend.


but since my boyfriend got jealous, i stopped talking to all the other guys.


you should be more important than those girls.


you've only been together for four months, you should get out of it now if things won't get better before you're too far in.
im just a guy and i know that hanging around that much pus*y even if your giving it up. hes still going to fall in a hole or two. if you tell him he cant b friends w/ them after awile he wont like you so all u can do is turn bi dump him or live w/ it
well dnt sho tht ur worried ok n maybe u juss hve to trust him and maybe he will invite u lol bt u r gnna b takin a risk lol
You sound your in highschool. Dosen;t sound good. he will cheat on you.
well, your bf sounds like a bit of a player.


if these girls have:


a. not known him for a long time (like you have your best friend)


b. dress slutty


c. purposely go out of their way to hug him and


flirt with him in front of you.





they are most likely after one thing. instead of getting really angry at him, just have a talk about how it makes you uncomfortable. if he cant understand where you are coming from, dump him. he isnt worth your time, because you seem like a really good girlfriend, and shouldnt have to put up with this flirty crap.


good luck!





xoxo


j