Saturday, August 21, 2010

I need some help with this problem.....?

Ok. Theres this girl named Autumn that I used to date a while ago but we broke up . She is, hands down, the best girlfriend I have ever had! She was amazing! After we broke up, we stayed best friends and talked to each other more than our current girl/boyfriend. Then she started saying stuff like '; I consider you my, like, brother. The thing is.... I am madly in love with here!! I want her badly!!! How should I confront her? After she considered me her brother, I felt like I could never get her back.... Please help!!!I need some help with this problem.....?
Tell her, you only live once and if you dont you will always wonder what would ever happen. But bear in mind that she may or may not like you in the same way you like her so be sure if you want to jepordize your friendship even if you were GF %26amp; BF before. I think you should tell her. You already have the 3 needed things, faith, hope, and love, and the greatest of these is love.I need some help with this problem.....?
Sorry man, she's not into you like that. The 'like a brother' line is the killer! So sorry. Your best bet is to confront her ASAP, because the longer this 'like a brother' thing goes on, you have 0% chance of anything greater. Good luck!
If she was such a terrific person why do you break up? We always think about the one that got away after they go away. I hear that you never miss your water till your well runs dry. And now you realize that and you want her back. What makes you think that she will? She has already considered you like a brother so what do you still want her for? Can't you get it , it's obvious that she is over you and wants you as a friend, but with the phone conversations you have taken it a step farther. It's time for you to let go and move on you both need some time to grow up and learn a little bit about yourselves before you can make another go at it. I always say that if ti's meant to be they will come back if not then you have to be able to move on and accept the decision that is made.
I say you need to sit down and talk to her and let her know how you really feel , You never know how she feels she could be just saying that to see what you are going to say. Just ask.
Try saying what you feel......tell her she doesn't feel like a sister to you, and that you would like to date her again. You'll get your answer.
All you can do is tell her how you feel. Be prepared for whatever answer she will give you. Even if it is the one that goes '; Im sorry I think of you as a brother';. Good luck to you.
Being a ';brother'; to her can be a good thing. it means she is comfortable with you. next time she says ';brother'; lightly laugh and say, no not brother, but friend who loves you yes, and then change the subject.


even a father confessor has a sex drive, she just needs to see you as a possibility. don't deny that you have strong feelings for her but don't push them on her either. flirt with her and see if she responds. if she does then you can be a little more forward. if she backs off or seems uncomfortable when you flirt with her then she is only comfortable with you because in her mind there is no possibility for anything more than what you have now.
I've been in the same boat take time to tell her how you feel,share things with each other, plan a special date with her some -thing you know she likes,or relive your first or most important memory you've had in the past with her
find another girl.





when say they think of you as a ';friend'; its bad.





as a ';brother';...worse.
You must take her out(just as friends of course) get her drunk and have sex with her. That will get the brother thing out of her head.....hopefully.
Have you ever watched the movie ';Just Friends';? Your situation is very simular to the characters in that movie. Maybe they have some hints to try. If you really love her then show her how you really feel and never give up even tho she think you as a brother.
tell her how you feel, if you can talk to eachother so much and all than im sure you can talk bout feelings, dont block the love away from her, she may be feeling the same way but too shy to say. take the consideration and tell her, if she doesnt feel the same and your bestmates it shouldnt change anything, jusy go ahead man tell the girl!

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