She thinks that I've flirted with her boyfriend?

A girlfriend of mine, Mary, told me that one of her friends thinks that I was flirting with that girls boyfriend, which I wasn't, of course.





But when I asked Mary if I should email this girl to let her know that she's got the wrong idea, Mary said that I shouldn't because it will just cause trouble because that girl hasn't said anything to me directly.





Will it be a good idea to just email that girl anyway? And let her know that I'm not trying to steal her man, just to clear the air, because when I met up with this girl again she didn't say anything about it to me, but it's obviously on her mind. Maybe she just doesn't know how to approach me.She thinks that I've flirted with her boyfriend?
U're friend Mary mite be the culprit. Did u make sure u nvr flirted with mary's bf?





Suppose Mary wz telling the truth (which u need to figure out), mayb the other girl realized that you didn't do anything wrong, thatz why she didn't say anything to you -- to confirm this, ask mary to help you out - (mayb let mary ask the other gal)





With mary's help you find out that the gal still thought u flirted with her bf.


You can make Mary tell her tat u nvr flirted with her bf... i mean, convice mary to help u.. and then mary can talk with the other gal.





First make sure u can this mary is trustable.. then only the whole plan works.


(emails r totally unrelaible... u'll get sick checking ur inbox and u'll not to get a reply from the other girl)


GluckShe thinks that I've flirted with her boyfriend?
yeaas, i think you should clear the air, and tell her that you werent trying to flirt with her man.


and i`m pretty sure you`ll be forgiven, but just dont emial and say, im not trying to steal your man


explain to herr.
It is not her, it is the boyfriends behavior that makes her think he is doing something. I think they will not be an item soon. You need to be respectful when you are in a group of mixed company, he is not being respectful and she see's his change in body mechanics.





Why does he flirt? Why does he need the attention?
If you email this girl, you'd be betraying Mary's trust. Just have Mary tell her that you noticed she was acting strangely towards you lately and that you just wanted to make sure everything was cool between the two of you. Don't suck up to her or be upset if she doesn't respond well, just move on after that...sounds like she's very insecure and would accuse anyone with eyes of flirting with her boyfriend.
this is some played out he said she said ****, just let it be known if you said it once no need to say it again 1...2...3...';I did not flirt with him'; put it to rest and if she says somthing to you let her know whats good!!!
well, if it made her angry, she needs to confront you in person, because u definitely dont want to be like, '; i am not flirting with your boyfriend'; and have her have no idea what you are talking about. that would be bad...so yeah, if she needs to, she will confront you, because if you are innocent, you shouldn't have to think about it until she DOES confront you..
if she hasnt said anything about it then indirectly tell her you arent looking at her man. say something about your bf or if you dont have one then make a comment about a guy you are crushing on or just someone that is hot that way she sees your interest is not in her man





also be open to the possibility of a drama queen, some people say things like that to people just to start drama and that could be why she would say ';dont say anything to her';
No do not email her, she hasent said anything to you and she will know someone told you. Wait for her to approch you. I repeat do not contct her!
mary is lying,, how com,, if da gurl really saw u flirt,, she didnot directly com and insult u??
naw dont emeail her it will just stir up the drama she'll prolly get over it
no dont email her!!!


if her boyfriend is kute then go ahead and flirt with him!!! HEY bitches are gonna talk might as well give them somethin to talk about then the rumors are true!!!


but no dont e-mail her...dont pay any attention to her....thats all i can think of to tell you!!!!








MUAH*
People who are insecure around people they don't know or feel are more outgoing than they are will tend to feel inadequate and think that the guy they are with would rather have you as a girlfriend and maybe HE talked about you so the best way for her to lash out is to say YOU flirted when really it was him showing interest in you.





I wouldn't email her, but I would definitley avoid her boyfriend.
Flirting is not an offence.


Feel free and enjoy!
yes e-mail her
Just forget about it for now. Your friend may have been making it up to get attention. I wouldn't bother unless the girl whose boyfriend you supposedly ';flirted'; with brings it up. That may be why ';Mary'; told you not to email her, because she knew she lied and the email would confirm it.





Enjoy your day!
Tell her it takes 2 to flirt and go talk to her boyfriend.