Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Do girls nowadays not want to be dated?

commitment issues? I see some guys that have it all but they try to date and fall on their face over and over, yet guys with the same attributes that go to parties and have one time sex over and over...only later to raise in social status and become 'hooked' with someone (as in, they are boyfriend-girlfriend), are more successful..im guessing because they have asserted some form of social hierarchy and therefore are only then...'dateable'....this also makes it an opportune moment for gold diggers to come and **** this guy because they can make all the girls he ****** but never dated 'jealous' making this particular ***** specimen have more 'social status'





This is quite itneresting to me. Also the word 'hooking up' is also very interesting, like its meant to be vague..why? because it allows a 'cover' for promiscuous girls (whores) that do not want to have a debbie downer in social status.





This is usually their strategy...from what Ive observed, I understand I am not God....they hang out a lot with a bunch of guys that ahve sort of had a 'social status' in a particular place...they either go for an asshole or the guy with highest social status because through the asshole or highest social status guy they can sort of make fun or make all the guys that were nice to her jealous... that are around the asshole or highest social stats guy but too chicken **** to say anything about the situation..





so she gets 'power'..once she has demoralized the other 'nice' males...she can use that as a pretext to further sleep randomly and eventually '****' the asshole...by doing this, and essentially '*******' people's soul....they really cannot ahve the moral authority to point out to 'her' that she is jsut basically what she always was...a promiscuos whore...because they would be accused of being a resentful loser (this is psychological, not necessiarly explicitly stated, any of this)





she finnaly settles with one guy that has a fairly good social status, and therefore, due to her past actions (I also assume such a specimen would have to be pretty...for her to get that much ***)...has resentment from the ones she '******'...which in turn shields her in a sort of enslavement of souls of sorts.





So this has a process, by which builds up to 'girl-boyfriend'...you cannot just 'ask out'...no matter how good looking you are...because girls are afraid of commitment or whathave you without first verifying a person's 'social status'.





Obvcourse I could be totally wrong, and it doesn't matter fi I think everybody involved in such adventures are mental retards. Because many parts of the United States and other parts of the world in this generation, will likely behave in the same moronic way.Do girls nowadays not want to be dated?
I didn't read all that b/c it's probably boring and you're supposed to ask a a question not present a thesis.





From my experience most guys and most girls want to date (or spend time together) and work toward building something.





I suspect you are committing the logical fallacy of confirmation bias.Do girls nowadays not want to be dated?
I read the first paragraph. I believe, my friend, you have mixed up girls and boys. Boys are that way, girls don't chose to be single. They don't want to be. If they feel unloved and aren't dating.. That is what would drag them to that level. Boys ask out girls. Girls wait for boys to ask them out.
Awwwww


So, let me guess here.....


You fell in love with some attention wh*re/ drama queen who was only using you to give her attention when some jerk that she was dating/ interested in created drama by treating her badly. You were most likely the shoulder for her to cry on, and you considered yourself a 'nice' guy...but she never realized your love for her and kept going back to the same jerks over and over again, so now you are embittered against ALL women and believe that all of us are shallow, gold digging wh*res. Did something similar to that happen to you?


Also, I would like to add that most decent women (the ones that actually give a f*ck about other people besides themselves, which you would be surprised- would be MOST of us), the decent ones want a nice guy to have a relationship with. Sure, we'll gladly f*ck a hot dumb jerk, but we don't want to be with him long term. The problem here, you see, is that 'nice' guys aren't assertive guys. They are shy guys. They don't ask us out. So we think that the nice guy isn't interested in us. After all, if a guy was interested in me, he would surely ask me out, right? So some jerk asks the women out, and because HE shows interest in them, they date him.


They realize he's a jerk and after him, they try to find nicer guys. There's a learning curve involved here. Some women just want the nice guy from the beginning. I, personally, would never EVER date some douche that treated me like crap. I also don't know many women that would.


Also, I don't ever date a guy based on the amount of money that he has. Wealthy people are sub human, with little characteristics of humanity. When a person becomes wealthy, greed and a sense of superiority, and a false sense of entitlement take the place of compassion, understanding, respect for other humans, and caring. So I would rather date a poor guy.


You have no respect for women. That's a shame. Sorry for whatever attention wh*re broke your little heart, but for you to generalize like this is ridiculous.


I was punched in the face by a guy once, but I don't go around thinking that all of you are going to punch me in the face.


The type of women that YOU are interested in, appear to be jealous, shallow, greedy, attention wh*res and drama queens. Sorry for that.


But I have scarcely met women that act and feel the way that you depict them, and I, being a woman, know much more about them than you could ever purport to.


Men demoralize women in many more ways than women demoralize men (if you want to be a generalizing turd), but I have found PLENTY of men that respect women and treat them with the same amount of affection that the women give them. Hey, I FOUND a nice, poor guy that I've settled down with and I couldn't be happier.


Also, who women have sex with is none of your business. As long as she is being careful, safe, and enjoying herself, then you should have no problem with her expressing her sexuality. Women have needs to, and to label us as wh*res for having sex outside of the context of a relationship is ridiculously naive of you.


It's sad that YOU are one of the jerks that you are talking about, with no respect for women.


Grow a pair and quit whining about your astute observations.
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