How do I solve the problem of having my friend take advantage of me?

When ever my friend does something, I always have to listen to her and follow what she does for some reason. If i dont, she gets mad at me and then i feel like she doesnt care, so i try to be all nice to her and she will be nice to me for a little while, but sooner or later she just treats me like crap all over again. I really want to go over to this guys house, because i like him and stuff, but the only problem is that his brohter is this girls boyfriend. so we always go over there together. well we were planning on going over there tommorow, but now she called me and told me she cant because shes going shopping with her grandma. since im with her so much, from her taking advantage of me, i would feel awkward going over there by myself. what should i do about my two problems?How do I solve the problem of having my friend take advantage of me?
Stand up for yourself and don't back down. If you portray weakness, then people will take advantage of you. You don't have to be really mean, just tell her your not doing whatever it is you don't want to do and if she gets mad then just be like ';sorry but that's just how it is';. You can't please everybody, and no one has the right to treat you like a lesser person. If she can't treat you as an equal, she's not a real friend. Good luck, I'd like to hear how it goes.How do I solve the problem of having my friend take advantage of me?
You should not call this girl a friend. Go over to the guys house, it's not like your trying to get with her man - your there because you like a guy and she has no say in it. You should end your ';friendship'; with her and start thinking for yourself. If you don't stand up for yourself now you will only continue in this pattern as you get older and people will always take advantage of you. Call this girl up and tell her you can not be her friend anymore because you hate the she makes you feel and your tired of being her slave. Tell her you are a person and have a mind of your own. As for the guy you like you should try meeting him outside of his house at least until that girl has time to cool down and stop being a brat. Good Luck.
Your her friend but she's not your friend. She's just one of those people who thinks she's above u and if u don't do what she says then she wants nothing to do with you, your gonna have to break this off, if she was a true friend she would not tell u what to do and then mad if u don't do it, it's as if she's spoiled.You say u feel like she doesn't care? your right she doesn't care, if she doesn't stop being this way the only friend she'll have is herself and when she realize the kind of person she is she not even gonna like herself.





Believe me she's not your friend %26amp; once she realize %26amp; see herself the way others see her, it's gonna be a rude awakening for her.





Dump her tell her why your doing it, tell her your not gonna continue being her whipping dog and that she needs lessons on how to be a friend and until she learns and treats you like a real true friend and with respect this friendship has come to and end. Don't call me, don't email me, don't tell someone else to tell me anything just ';DON'T';





Don't feel bad or guilty over breaking off the friendship with her because she doesn't feel gulity in the way she treats you





Even if u have to go it alone until you meet someone else to be your friend it better then having her as a so call friend.





Good Luck
Have sex with both guys...then it won't matter.
you have to inform your friend. be honest tell him or her of what you think about him or her
First off, friends don't do that. I'm sure you've heard it before. You need to find people to hang out with who value you as a friend.





Secondly, if you like this boy, why not call him and invite him over to your place (this way you don't have to run into her)? Just tell him you were looking forward to seeing him, but since she's going shopping, you'd still like to see him. Plan something that he likes, basketball, gaming, action movies, and most boys really go for food!


(Probably a really good idea to okay this with your folks first, though).





Good luck, sugar.
You will have to learn to say no. Ok say it with me: No No NO NO NO no no no!!! My feeling is that the friend you mention isn't the only one who is taking advantage of you. I'm not saying go into isolation, but you will have to learn how to stand up for yourself.
You should get another friend. She is a user. Friends should not put guilt trips on your like that.
i used to have that kind of friend also in past time! but after sometimes i get hurt i decided to leave her, i'm sure that i will find the other nice friends (and i find them finally). so, i think you should leave her or at least dont be her doll, just be yourself and follow your heart! good luck!
pardon my language, but ur friend sounds like a BEE-tch.





stand up for your self and do what you want to do. tell her that you do stuff for her all the time and she could start doin stuff w you, if she says why, you tell her to reconsider your friendship and tell her to call YOU when she quits bein so inconsiderate. she'll never call if she has pride or she will when she needs a ride...ditch the ******!!!





Problem 2- just tell the guy you like him up front, sounds like he already sees enough of you...you don't need her to get him!!!! go for it!!!!
Thats not a good friend. A friend would never put you in that situation. Dump her and get a real friend who you can be yourself with. Being with someone you have to walk on pins and needles with is just a waste of time for you. If you like this boy, go for it. And if he's just a friend then don't let her spoil your good time. Go and have fun! Dump the snob and get on with YOUR life. If she was any kind of friend she would know better than to act like that
This girl is really taking advantage of u...i mean even if she gets mad of u 4 no reason (probably to get attention),u should tell her that if she keeps acting this way,u r going to find a better friend who wont atke advantage of ur feelings like she is.O and if she doesnt change then treat her the same way she treats u.O and dont fall into her trap and get scared of doin things without her,u r the ruler of u...dont let some one else manipulate u.(sorry if i misspell...lol)If u like that guy then go over there without her,u dont need her thats y u have ur body,ur heart..take my advice..if u wanna...
Stop letting her take advantage of you! If you really feel like going then GO! Don't let her rule Your Life like that...





But remember if you do go over to this guy's house... Don't have sex with him or get or anything... If you know what I mean... Or else your next question is going to be ';I kinda did with this girl's boyfriend, she is going to kill me, what should I do?'; You don't wanna go there...





Just make sure you trust guys... You look like a preety girl... If this girl can take advantage of you... These guys will too... Just becareful... :)
give her a dose of her own medicine
Tell her what you really think. And if you loose her friendship you will be better off.


About going to the guy's house, there are some things you have to do on your own. You can't take your friends with you everywhere.
Go see your boyfriend! And if she gives you guilt about it, tell her to screw off...it sure doesn't sound like she's a true friend to begin with...get rid of her!
New friends. You don't need people treating you like this.
go meet the guy and tell his brother that his gf should mind her business.
1st of all, I don't think you need a friend that treats you like that and I understand that you may be a loyal person but you have to be strong for yourself and find a friend that'll treat you well. About going to the guys house, I think you shld go and see how u handle yourself without her being there.
Stand up for yourself. First put yourself in her shoes and make sure you're not going to be a complete jerk.
you feel like she doesn't care because she doesn't, Talk to this guy and ask him to go somewhere with him you don't need her all she wants is a push over stop giveback in to her and her friendship is not worth it! She is taking advantage of you because your letting her, don't give her the satisfaction and she will realize she is not a good friend because she will have NO friends. hope you find some real friends where the friendship works both ways. GOOD LUCK