How do i stop getting so jealous about every girl my boyfriend talks to?

I get a little jealous whenever my boyfriend talks to other girls...but when other girls flirt with him i get insanely jealous. He doesn't flirt with other girls...but whenever he even texts other girls...i wonder what he's talking about. We went to his brothers wedding last night. He was a groomsman..and when they were announcing the wedding party..he was announced with a cute blonde bridesmaid that was his age. she looked at him like he was such a hottie. and everyone screamed and whistled for them like they were such a good looking couple. i wanted to scream. i don't know what to do.How do i stop getting so jealous about every girl my boyfriend talks to?
The very thing that you are afraid of, you are going to cause to happen. Your afraid of losing him. Control freaks want to control not because of how others may behave, but how they will behave. Your jealousy will guarantee that you will lose him. If you have no trust in your relationship, then you have no relationship. Show some confidence. Act like you like it when girls swoon over him and he goes home with you. Take away the power that it has over you, or you will lose.How do i stop getting so jealous about every girl my boyfriend talks to?
you need to find a way to get it under control otherwise belive me when i say your jealousy will drive him into the arms of someone else, its when you start sufficating someone that they end the relationship.
listen you said he doesnt flirt with other girls


he is with you for a reason, because he cares about you and doesnt want to be with anyone else but you. hes yours // so stop worrying about stupid girls who flirts with him, because hes with you not them!


stop worrying
You apparently have some insecurity issues. The worst thing you can do is worry about who you man talks to and how she looks cause that will only make you believe something is going on thats not. Unless he is being a jerk to you or hitting on girls infront of you, give him the benefit of the doubt. Guys dont like girls who are overly jealous or clingy. If you love him, then trust him and thats all you can do. He is with you, not them, keep reminding yourself of that and the whole wedding thing, you are just over thinking the situation too much
If you want to keep this guy. You had better grow up. You will only make him fall into the arms of someone else. Who wants to be with someone that doesn't trust you. Think about it. Lighten up! Your not married to him.
Sadly, there isn't really anything you can do except keep telling yourself you're the one he's dating and not them. I doubt you have to worry about him cheating on you, unless he starts preferring to spend time with other girls instead of you.
ah i feel the SAME way you do.


i trust my boyfriend but its just i dunno.


i'm a really jealous type of person =/





but i always tell myself why would he even be with me if he can have all those other girls?


then that kind of makes me feel better.
Whenever you start feeling jealous, remind yourself that he's with you, he's not interested in anybody else, be happy that you got yourself a hot hottie and smile real big.