Is this how a 17 year old girl finds a boyfriend?

My friend told me if I want a boyfriend, all I have to do is stand by myself at a bar or club and guys will be all over me. She said to wear a low cut top and tight jeans and she will come with me and we can both get one. I would like an older guy about 21. Is this the way to do it? she also said to drink. I am prepared to do this to find a boyfriend. No guys at school like me. And will these older guys find me attractive?Is this how a 17 year old girl finds a boyfriend?
noIs this how a 17 year old girl finds a boyfriend?
That's not projecting a good image if you're standing there in the suggested outfit. Be yourself, wear your favourite clothes and drink if you feel like it. If you listened, went there and drank then you would not be acting like yourself. One day you'd have to drop that front and possibly get dumped. You can also scare guys off like that.
Well ok, alright, ok I think you should like wait til you are older, cuz your friend is telling you the wrong way to do it... you are going to wind up getting a nasty girl disease... and you will fall in love but he will go to jail because he is older, and you will blame your friend you will hate her everytime you feel the itch and the burning... But hey do what you want, you only live once and the sun is going to burn out someday and you will be dead and then it won't matter any more that you got the clap and a broken heart... lol
they will find you attractive, duh? your wearing a low cut top! hunnie, this isnt the right way to find a boyfriend, if i heard you say that's how you found your boyfrioend, i would think your desperate, your friend does it, doesnt mean you should do it. you wont even know the guy at the bar, what if he rapes you (if he gets drunk). the bar is not a really good way to find a boyfriend. and he could be a drugie... you never know, so.. not a good idea to find a boyfriend at a place like that, but if you insist... i cant stop you
no don't do that, very bad idea. and that friend doesn't sound like a very good friend. older guys like that wanna get younger girls drunk and just have sex with them (prey on them). and what do you think would happen if you got caught drinking only being 17??? you will find someone to like you for you not for a slutty drunk teenager
I'm with Comrade. For sure tell them how horny you are.


Everyones telling you to wait for the guys to come to you though? I think you should just take off your top and wear a mini skirt.


Commando, of course.


Good luck, love!
Oh, dear God, no. Don't do that. Find a nunnery, quick, like yesterday, now. God makes an excellent boyfriend, though you'd sort of be sharing him with thousands of other women, but I hear polygamy is ';kewl'; with the kids these days...


Good Luck! :)
you can try but i have to warn you, guys in bar are bunch of smart D-I-C-Ks, all they want is sex. if that plan fail then you have to wait for your leading man to show.. youre still 17 you should have fun... just wait till the time comes
no thats a horrible idea!


guys are just gonna think your easy if you do that!


plus you probly wont even be in a relationship with any of the guys at the bar. its good to have someone like you for your personality not your looks!
Solution: Stand on the corner.





This way, you will have many boyfriends! Boyfriends that will pay you money just to hang out with them!





What more could you want?!
nobody respects a slutty girl look for a guy at a classy location
no your frined is actually making you become a slut with maturity you will get a guy...so just wait for the right time and right person to come along...!
The best thing to do is tell guys how drunk and horny you are
if your 17 you should worry about staying in school and not going to no damn bar





are you trying to get raped?
that is a behaviour of a trash bag
NO! don't be a whore.


1) Don't wait for guys to come on to you unless you want to be alone or end up with someone you don't want to much


2) Don't get a guy just because you look good, even though im sure it gets them in but really, what else would they want if thats all your giving?


3) Your 17, don't date anyone older than 18 its really nasty not because you but because of the guy.


4) Your friend is matching you up with rape...seriosly. Your 17, go to a bar, get drunk, look sluty, have older guys come on to you (pedofiles) and **** will go way more down hill...


5)don't be desperate, your ONLY problem seriously is that you wait for the guy. Just go ask someone at school that you like.





I'm 17 and trust me your making things way worse than they need to be. If you need help with what guys are into or want other than whoring yourself out to creepers in bars then please e-mail me.