I feel like an awful person for doing all of this, but you can't help how you feel about someone.. Last night she said it was ';fruitless'; to be in a relationship with him.. my question is.. how do i coupe with being the other guy.. or do I try and find a way for her to break it off with him.. He comes home for christmas, and it's killing me that I'm going to have to disapear for a weekI've been sleeping with this girl whose boyfriend is in the military, how do i get her to leave him for me?
I'm a Marine fiance and looking at this situation, you shouldn't try to get her to break up with him. I absolutely despise unfaithful military girlfriends. You need to let her go, any girl who will do that to someone else ESPECIALLY a military man is not worth anything honestly.
Cheating on a military man could get him killed, I hope you realize that. Some people are over there fighting to come back to the one that they love and that's completely unfair of her to be messing around on him. She isn't a true military girlfriend and you as a friend, what kind of a friend does that? You should have said no, he is fighting for our country and you NEVER betray a soldier/troop/Marine like that ever.
I think you need to look at this situation right now and figure out something, as soon as he gets back and she doesn't tell him, you'll be out of the picture for good because she's going to want a military man. Wow, it sounds like you're getting played bud and I hate to say that because you're probably a decent guy at heart but you made a huge mistake.
This situation makes me sick, I don't understand how she could do that to him or how you could.I've been sleeping with this girl whose boyfriend is in the military, how do i get her to leave him for me?
I wish you the best of luck with your situation.
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well tell her the truth of how u feel and don't hold back from it just tell her and see where it goes and if she is the someone u care about alot u better hope he isn't crazy and goes gun hoe on you if he figures out that u and her were doing things behind his back
especially if that guy finds out. didn't anyone tell you that even a nerdy looking person thats in the military is trained to snap twigs like you. the guy will seriously find out and then you will pay.
Don't worry, her relationship with him is over. However, be aware that her lack of commitment to her current guy could spell trouble in your future relationship.
drop her. put yourself in his shoes and see how you would feel if something like that happened to you, and decide what you think you should do. see if morals are more important to you than a quick ***.
Is this what you're doing while he's out fighting for out country? Screwing his girlfriend? I gotta agree with the other guys here, that's really low. For heaven's sake, move on and find someone available.
Mikey, grow a backbone and stop cheating on the guy in the military. How can you live with yourself by doing such a lowlife thing?
wow. that's pretty low to go about homewrecking like that.
Just Enjoy her an wait for a week but bee careful about ur safety
well, you are in a world of sh**, here is why, one, if she leaves him for you, what is to say she doesn't get bored with you down the road and leaves you for someone else.. if a girl leaves someone for you there is nothing keeping them from doing that to you.. also, he is in the military, IF he finds out, (and depending on his MO he might be keen to certain skills (investigating, noticing that she might be acting different, noticing changes in general), most military personnel are trained to be aware, intuitive, and perceptive (observation), than he could come after you.. I am not saying he will, he probably will just dump the barracks hoe, and move on, but also, if she slept with you while he is gone.. what's to say she isn't with anybody else or has not been with anybody else on his past deployments... something to consider, I don't think any woman is worth that drama.
Ya that's sure a pickle. Well I don't recommend trying in anyway to try and get her to break up with him. What ever confused feelings you have, she is having 10 times worse. She is in love with a guy she never sees, she doesn't want to dump him in a post-card or on the one break he gets and she still has feelings for him. She is probably going crazy in her head. Just let her decide and let her come to a decision on her own. You would hate to force her in to something she would later regret.
If you want to keep doing what your doing now (sex while she has a b/f) then I guess that fine as long as both know what your doing. There is a chance that she is telling you the truth, she is just using you for comfort b/c she is lonely and misses her b/f. But if you can't stand not having all of her then your going to have to stop. Just tell her that your out but if things don't work out with her b/f to give you a call. Leave the door open for you, and be prepared she will need some time to work through all this. Just be ready for what ever happens. I feel for the both of you, this isn't a easy situation to be in.
Best of luck
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The only thing I can suggest to you is:
';if you steal another man's love away. How can you ever truly be sure someone else won't still your love away?';
Meaning, if she is willing to cheat and leave him. Can you truly ever be sure that she wouldn't do that to you under given circumstances. Plus, the circumstances in which you both connected seems more like confusion and a lustful healing bond, then the right spark to light the fire of love.
you know i doubt its unrequited.. and since you have both gone this far it is really only fair on the BIG BUFF military guy that she leaves him, as she doesnt seem to be able to remain loyal to her boyfriend.
You also face another problem, i'm going to assume that the guy coming back from the military has been wanting to see her for a while. just to hold her close again. so to be honest you leaving town because he finds out. GOOD idea. but if i am to give you any advice. its this. never ever help someone to cheat, and never cheat yourself, the problems it causes especially with a long relationship, well its not worth doing it.
you have dug this.. if you want to get out, the only way is for her, to leave the military guy and go with you, and being the other guy, well you made yourself the other guy you have to cope yourself, if i were you, id be focusing on how upset and mad your going to make a military guy feel, and how far your going to have to run, i hope for your sake you have a border pass and sports car.
I understand you feel strongly about her, but you had no place going into that mans house while he is off serving this country. If she wanted to fool around with you she needed to be straight with her man and tell him the long distance is too much and she wants to break it off. You should stay with her if she straightens it out with her man. but if she doesn't you can't keep doing this behind his back. Think if your love was ******* a guy behind your back, another guy giving back rubs to your girl and teasing her
Dude you are f-up. I am in the Marines and nothing worse then someone messing with our loved one back home. While i am defening this country your our messing with another girl who is with one of the troops. Grow some balls man and say no. Tell her you cant because her man is more of man by signing up to defened this country so assholes like me can mess with their girls. Dont do that crap its fu@ked up to highest level man. I cant even stand the thought of you bro. If it were me i would come home and jack you up homie.
you're rotten and so is she.
that man is fighting a stupid
war for our country and your
banging his chick! wth? you
should straight up tell him
so he can beat the mess out
of you while he's home. and
you don't have to worry about
being the ';other guy'; because
all you are is slime! what a
nice way to thank someone
for protecting everything you have
in this country...
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