Are there guys that can practically get with almost any girl?

And if so, how do they fair with girls with boyfriends?





If they exist, I may work with one. He’s 33, 6’1”, in decent shape, and something of a player. I know he’s had his way with a good number of women, but he brags a little bit too much. He said he gauged from her body language at a Christmas party that he could score my gf if he tried. I almost decked him, but I told him – you don’t know her if that’s what you think.





Foolishly, its turned into a wager. And the stakes aren’t low: he’s going to give me all of his billable hours for a case we’re working on (we’re both associates at a civil defense law firm, and billable hours are of incredible value.) one way or the other with my end of the wager being fulfilled if I have the guts not step in the way and let him do what he has to. If I block her, or if I refuse to allow it to be confirmed (ie I’ll let him ask my gf at the next function in a way that doesn’t reveal the wager), I have to give him my billables. Our billable are due at the end of the month, so that put a pretty good time limit on things.





On Jan 12 there was a bar association function, and he fairly openly flirted with my wife. He even asked to dance with her. I didn’t step in, and they danced a little, but at the end of the night she came home with me. I called him, and said guese your game is over – and he said, not necessarily. Give him until this Saturday morning, and if he hasn’t gotten anything by Friday night, he’ll throw in the towel. But don’t count on it.





Then, out of nowhere, my gf says that she is going out on Friday with her one friend. She goes out with her friends once or twice a month, so that she’s going out is no big deal – but why just this one this time? And the timing!!!!!!!!!!!!





I’m worried, but I guesse I brought this on myself. I still trust her. But still – what are the odds?Are there guys that can practically get with almost any girl?
uhhh... im sorry im lost.Are there guys that can practically get with almost any girl?
Look you shouldn't be doing this kind of stuff in the first place!! This is the best way of loosing your girlfriend/wife. Just grow up and stop being stupid. If she loves you then she won't go off with anyone. Just don't let her find out what you've done or you will loose her and no mistake!!! Silly man.
Not sure but a standing C*ck has no conscious
i disagree with the other reviews... if you love someone, and let them go, if they come back, they love you back, if not, they never really did... good luck bro!
To answer your question, I don't think that there's any one guy who can have any girl he wants (especially this one.) He's clearly not only extrememly self-absorbed and neurotic, but a complete *** for choosing your girlfriend to seduce.Women appreciate and recognize good, honest guys and while he might have her fooled initially, she will most likely seize him up for what he really is. This guy seems very threatened, either by you or some other aspect of his life. By trying to prove to you that he could convince your girlfriend to cheat on you with him, he's attemping to validate himself. While it is understandable that you might want to ';prove to yourself'; that she won't cheat on you by not talking to her and waiting to see what happens, it would be much healthier for both of you if you discuss this.If she understands what's going on, she won't have an affair regardless of whather she was planning to or not. Ask her not to tell him about your discussion and let him assume that he lost. Whatever you do, don't let his minipulative games come between you and her.
I can not believe that you took this wager on! If your partner finds out (which she probably will) then she is not going to be happy with you and it may even be the end of your relationship. Is that what you want? There are some blokes with no morals who will go with other people's wifes / girlfriends and think that is ok so it might happen. He is obviously not a friend if he is doing this to you and you are showing your partner no respect by letting this happen. Call it off now before it ruins your life.
The odds are good that he will get your girl.By not ';block[ing]'; his actions, you just opened the door. He knew what he was doing when he asked you to let him conduct his business without interference.





When you let him flirt and dance with her; you gave your girlfriend the message that you aren't paying enough attention to her and that you don't care what she does and who she does it with. He very likely planted the seed; and you confirmed it by being so nonchalant.


Women want to be desired. If he seems to desire her more than you do, it's over.





This is all hypothetical: you probably don't have a gf or wife (you can't even rember which she is)
You are playing with fire my friend, very foolish............
if she loves you she wont do anything and if that guy is a friend of yours he shouldn't be pulling that sh*t. I really don't know what to tell you.
If you two really love eachother chances are she won't, but just betting on that obviously made you not trust her. It's not a good idea to do that. Maybe you should confess to her...
honestly are you stupid? you do not bet on that kinda things!


if she goes off with him it will be your own fault
Sounds like the plot for a film..starring Robert Redford..let's call it 'Indecent Proposal' lol!
I don't think any guy could have ';ANY'; girl.


Be really nice to the GF for the next few weeks. Show her you love her more than ever before and she'll be less likely to stray.


On the other hand, this could be a good time to find out what kind of woman she is. I realize that billables are very important, but don't know what to know what she'll do?





I think he should have to prove what he did. A picture is in order.





Good luck, I hope she doesn't cheat and you get his billables.
I'm sorry to say, these people do exist.





How far is this supposed to go? Does he just have to go out with her one night to win the bet or does he need to sleep with her? This could be a huge turning point, you must have trusted her to so easily make the bet, so if you win you'll see you trust was deserved. But if you lose, what will you do? If she cheats on you, you can't really stay with her, it just wouldn't work.





But how does he prove he's done it? Does he tell you where and you just happen to turn up?





Good luck, but personally, I don't trust her.
Yeah, you definitely brought this on yourself. Is there anyone you can call who can find out for you if this friend really made plans with your gf?
It's possible, but this is a good test for both of you. If she loves you, she'll realize that shes not doign the right thing and doesnt want to be with this tool. Otherwise, I guess your in for a suprise.
Wow. That sounds pretty complicated. I was with a guy who sounds similar to this other guy you were talking about. He was very handsome, smart, funny...but he was a player. He ended up cheating on me...so I kinda know how that is. If I were you, I would probably have decked him out. Haha, I know that sounds bad. So about your girlfriend, did she flirt back with him? I think you should confront her about it. It may lead to a fight...but it's just something that you gotta work at. If she really loves you, she would have the capacity to tell you the truth. I wish you the best of luck :)
To answer the first part of your question, no. No matter how rich, or good looking, or suave, or famous a guy is, there is no Dhali Llama of the horizontal polka. There will always be women who have enough self-respect to avoid being easy. Then of course there's the entire lesbian population, but whether they count as ';being on the radar'; is more of a matter of personal opinion.





For the second part of your question... seriously, you shouldn't have even made that wager in the first place. First, its reeaallyy disrespectful to your girlfriend and women in general to bet on her faithfulness. If she were to ever find out the truth behind this predicament, I guarantee that things will not end well for you or your relationship. Second, if you knew your friend was a Casanova and you are so concerned about the loyalty of your girlfriend, then why would you even agree to the wager in the first place?





If you truly love your girlfriend and if you are truly worried that she might be unfaithful, then you should go to your ';friend'; IN PERSON and lay down the law. Tell him that it was a stupid thing to do and that you refuse to take part in the wager anymore. As a matter of fact, you should insist that there was no wager in the first place. If this guy has any amount of respect for his fellow man, he'll understand and things will go on as if nothing ever happened. If he doesn't comply, and if I were in your shoes, I would seriously have no arguments against decimating his pretty-boy face until he couldn't recognize himself anymore.





But either way, you're kind of in a rough spot. You could either let things play out and possibly lose your girl, or you could swallow your pride and end the bet here and now. Between you and me, I'd go with the latter. Besides, in the off-chance that you get beat up, you'll get brownie points for defending her honor!
Yup, I didn;t read this whole monologue, but if that is how you communicate with her...you're screwd
He'll be nut-deep by Newsnight
Your a fool, some guys believe they can have any woman they want and as a result generaly do.


You need to trust your gf. if she is going out with the girls and you accuse her af anything she will be heart broken when you explain the bet. Also if something does happen with this other guy the its obvoious you shouldnt be together long term. Just dont tell him she is going out, then see if he says anything after friday if he does then confront your gf


hope you have learnt a lesson from all this.
That's pretty screwed up and she's going to kick your *** when she find's out she's at the bottom of a stupid bet.
Is she your wife or gf? You referred to her as one or the other atleast on two occassions that I read.
Tricky game you are playing there!!If your girlfreind loves you then you have nothing to worry about!!Lets hope that this big head that you work with is proven wrong and your girlfreind turns him down!! x
See... the reason i do not believe this is simple... the one paragraph in the middle... you call her your wife. So you screwed the story up. But nice story. I mean... seriously. Very close to a twisted Indecent Proposal. I like your story telling and i like the stakes. I just WISH you wouldnt have called her your wife at the Bar association party.





';On Jan 12 there was a bar association function, and he fairly openly flirted with my wife. He even asked to dance with her.';





Ruined it for me. But to answer your question, no. Their is no oe that can get with anyone. Now, their probably ARE women that can get any man. So... look out!