How to make sure that your girl/boyfriend is really your match?

I'm in a serious relationship with a man for almost 4 years and we've already got engaged to each other. He is nice and sweet, and I love him too. We are about to get married next year but I don't know why I'm never sure that he is my match. What happen with me? Anybody could help?How to make sure that your girl/boyfriend is really your match?
you need to think about this matter deeply.. this about your future! you don't want your marriage end just after two year married, right? and just because you find that he/she is not your soul mate.. my advice, let your heart speak. if you feel like he/she is not your soul mate, leave him or just be friend.. if you doubt either your marriage last or not, better don't get even married because your marriage will end up faster than you can even think.. so, think about this matter seriously and make your right decision so that you can reach happiness in your future life.. all the best!How to make sure that your girl/boyfriend is really your match?
If you're asking this question I think you may need to reevaluate your relationship with your partner. Can you imagine being with your partner another 5, 10, 20 years? In what respect is he not your match? It is only fair to both yourself anf your fiance that you give your relationship much thought before taking the step of marriage.
There are no guarantees when it comes to relationships. But I DO know that at this stage, you shouldn't be questioning whether your fiance is your true match or not; you should be elated, happy, excited...looking forward to being married to him. I don't think there's anything wrong with you; you just want reassurance about your decision to get married. Sometimes we think we're with the right person and later on find out we were totally mistaken. But other times, we leave that person and regret it for the rest of our lives. Remember: We don't know what we have until we lose it...
I think there's a huge difference between questioning and doubting. It's normal, when making a huge life decision, to want to make sure it's the right thing. But if you're really wondering about him and your marriage, you may need to step back and think about things.


Only you know how you're feeling. But I think when something is right, you'll feel a peace about the relationship.