Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Girl-boyfriend problems? [This is what happens when I take yahoo advice Dx]?

Now I had an issue before. A girl apparently with her boyfriend, tends to flirt with me a lot o_O





Now, the boyfriend obviously is pissed at me, (ofc, as usual not pissed at his girlfriend as most guys arent) and I came to yahoo for advice. The majority of answers I got was ';stay awaay from the girl, don't be too friendly etc etc';





I did that, and I got the girl to hate me since I basically showed no signs of interest in flirting. And having the girl and the guy hate is a painful situation Dx.





So basically, the boyfriend is pissed(as he should be) and the girl is ofc, now pissed at me.





Probably the guy will get over it, but not the girl. She was really attracted to me and I did not want to ';go to the next level'; with her at her boyfriend's dismay :|





How do I fix this :(Girl-boyfriend problems? [This is what happens when I take yahoo advice Dx]?
You did the right thing.





So a cheating girl is p*ssed at you? I'm sure you'll get over that.





The reason the guy is annoyed at you and not at her is because he doesnt want to own up to the fact that his pride is hurt. Her liking you when she's with him looks bad on him. He thinks a public show of aggression towards you will help mend that in th eyes of all those who know about it.





If he had half the courage you displayed ( taking the advice of yahoo answer) then he'd cut her loose and she would get what she deserved.





As for what to do now? Stick to the courage of your convictions. You'll get universal respect for it eventually.Girl-boyfriend problems? [This is what happens when I take yahoo advice Dx]?
You don't. I was just in the same situation. If the girl wants to flirt with you and date you while she has a boyfriend then has bad moral character. You don't want to date a girl like that anyway. Who's to say you two hook up and couple months later another guy comes along that she is attracted to. Then you become the victim. Stay away, move on. You do you and stay focused. Your young, u will find someone better.
the first answers you got were right. you should have stayed away from her at the start. i can't believe how disloyal his girlfriend is... but anyway. i guess you should flirt with that girl ONLY to get her attention. then maybe tell her to help fix things between you and that guy. maybe she should take the blame? it doesn't seem fair that he should be mad at you when you didn't reeaallly do anything. but to keep everyone happy, don't flirt with that giirl


oh yeah, what does ofc mean? hahaha
Well i would say if she is attracted to you, she should show it by either telling her boyfriend BYE! Or ask her what she would of wanted you to do in that situation that she was putting you in. Her boyfriend hates you and she wont do anything about? Well either she wants something real or NOT. Playing games is not an Option if you want to build a relationship. And if you think i am wrong i am sorry!!
well thats why you should ask a real friend in set of going on to yahoo for help because there are lots of people that just make accounts to mess up peoples lifes, but there are some good ones, you should ask a friend you really know and for my advice you shouldnt worry about the girl if she loved you she shoul gone out wit you not wit the other guy. you will find someone else.


good luck!
so let me get this straight...


you were flirting with a girl that was already in a relationship and know that you ignore her, her and the boyfriend are mad at you because you don't flirt with her anymore?!?


this makes no sense... i don't get it.


but you should still get away from it... guys in drama is very unattractive!!!
in my opinion you did the right thing...why she is pissed at you?!! you should be pissed at her for flirting with you and still having a boyfriend!!! she was playing you and now she showed this to you!!! If she would care about you she would be sad not pissed off!!! you can do much better than she!
why do you care if she is mad at you? she sounds like a slut if shes flirting with you when she has a man. if she is mad at you than who cares. let her be mad and move on with your life. if you want to make up with the guy than do that but she is not even worth being friends with.
Tell her that its not right because she has a boyfriend. i know that its hard, but talk to the boyfriend! before she gets carried away with flirting with other guys during a relationship and goes ';too far'; it'll hurt him. good luck. Be honest about it, kay? lies make it worse.
stay away from both of them.





i mean if you wanna be friends with them thats cool, but a girl gettin mad at you because you wont flirt with her and she's taken?! that's some bullshit.


if you really want a relationship with her then wait till they break up.. but be careful she might flirt behind your back too.





good luck =).
You don't fix it. She's pissed because she can't flirt with you? She should be flirting with her bf, or break up with him.





You did the right thing in this case. No issue, cut your ties and move on.
Her boyfriend is going to beat you with a crowbar, put you in a burlap bag weighed down w/ stones and throw you in the freezing river. Bye
do not get involved anymore, remove yourself from the negative situation and get your own relationship or other friends who don't give you trouble like this, it's just immature
if she likes you, forget the boyfriend just tell her why u were mean to her, and she should forgive and tell the dude that it's on, and she will choice the best! LOL
she's a cheater. you dont want her and you dont want to be the guy that breaks them up, so stay out of it. peace
Tell her you like her but did not want to get your *** beat by her boyfriend. After they break up you will be happy to see her.





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Nothing to fix, she shouldn't be flirting with other guys when shes with her boyfriend.





Leave it alone.
tell her that you like her but you are not gonna be her rebound. She need to end it with the boyfriend and then start it with you or stay friends.
why do you want to fix it? Everything is fine...the boy friend won't kill you, the girlfriend won't be cheating.
just tell her that you two couldnt have a relationship and tell her that its better if she only has one guy.... haha... no but seriously just tell her why you stopped and why you did the right thing
Easy... Threesome
Fix? Leave things as they are! Unless you want deep inside to be with that girl!
the girl is probably pissed you went 2 yahoo answers for dating advice dude. This'll only make it worse
try to get her to brake up with her boyfriend then go out with her without him knowing or take the girl and move to canada
Fix it so you'll be back where you started? YOU KNOW WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN IF YOU DO. Stay away from them!!
I would just say, ';Dont hate on me! You've got a BF! I dont do the two timing scene!
talk to her be really honest about how you feel for her and why you kept your distance
Just don't talk to them.


It'll blow over.
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say he ***** wanna slob on my knob
tell her how you feel

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