Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Ugh! has the whole world gone mad? What do guys find so attractive about this girl (a bit long,but plz read)?

I'm 16 years old and only had one steady boyfriend.But that relationship was a total mistake and a disaster,so i really haven't had much luck with guys,even though i'm funny,laid back,optimistic and i've been called cute/sexy by my guy friends.So,i'm friends with alot of guys at school you know,and at least 5,count them... FIVE! of my guy friends have either already gone out/going out/or wants to go out with this girl at my school named Denisha.And that is just limited to MY friends,she's gone through alot of other guys too.So i'm hearing my guy friends talk about how they wanna go out with her, and how she's had alot of boyfriends.It sounded like to me she was a playa,lol.So when i finally got the chance to meet the Infamous Denisha i expected to see a cute,veluptuous,sassy,petite,flirtatious girly girl(on account of how many guys she is pullin).And when i saw this chick,i was absoloutely speechless.This girl looks like a HOT mess.First off she's bony as a twig,no breasts,no butt,her hair stuck out in all sorts of directions (and i'm not exxagerating) and she's not cute AT ALL.In my head i was like ';What the yuck?!'; now this is my question to you Yahoo Answers,why can a girl like THAT get a whole bunch of guys but i'm still single???!!! and i don't have alot of self-confidence,but i know FOR A FACT i look better than Denisha.What the hell is going on?What do guys find so attractive about this girl? should i start looking like crap too so i can start getting guys to pay attention to me?Ugh! has the whole world gone mad? What do guys find so attractive about this girl (a bit long,but plz read)?
Maybe she has a better personality than youUgh! has the whole world gone mad? What do guys find so attractive about this girl (a bit long,but plz read)?
they might have heard rumors about her, a lot of guys think only about sex. maybe they heard she guves good bjs or something haha. i wouldnt feel bad honey, i had guys telling me i was cute/sexy all the time, and i didnt get a bf til my freshman year of college (he was my first kiss, too!)
She could have a really nice personality...


But the more likely scenario; she's really easy and they know for a fact they can get into her pants.
Maybe she's just easy, and those guys have low standards for themselves, when it comes to girls.


Quite pathetic if you ask me.


Or maybe she has so much confidence and such a great personality that makes up for what her looks don't provide.
i also agree that guys just want her because she's easy... you'll find somebody, you are only 16 and i wouldn't suggest getting into a serious relationship until you're out of high school. ENJOY BEING SINGLE. that girl will probably end up pregnant.
In high school, many guys are driven by hormones. This means that they don't necessarily react to looks or personality. What they do react to is when girls act slutty. They probably like this girl because she gives off an impression of wild abandon. You DO NOT want to emulate this girl. Just bide your time, and eventually guys will realize that girls like that just aren't worth it. Alternatively, you could find a guy who hates the girl as much as you do and start up a conversation with him--you will have more in common with him than many other guys.





Nice pic btw.
Gotta try to work on self-confidence, like I am trying to as well... otherwise we're both doomed to be single for a long while.





It'll be hard, of course, but it might be worthwhile... if you find the right person. This girl... I dunno, it might just be a lesson of some sort that girls with 'no breasts, no butt' are sometimes better than those that have one. Not sure, just pondering about that... but I for one don't give a **** about breast or butt size on a woman at all.





But if her hair's all 'sorts of directions', that's a turn-off... for me, at least, again.





Anyway, you don't need to 'look like crap' or be bitter at all - it's timing, a nice mature core attitude and, well, self-confidence... and you already have the looks - quite beautiful, by the way - so good luck.
first off just because she has had most of the school does not make her a good girl to be with, and can't you think why they are with her ..she gives them ALL they are looking for and everything they ask her to do to them or let them do to her, period


that's is it


is that what you want as a reputation, I think NOT


but she has it and will stay with her for the rest of her life


you do not want that to stay with you for ever, ten twenty years down the line , your walking with friends or family and you see her, and people say hey isn't that the girl who did the entire football team, that is nothing to smile about


stay YOU, be cute and nice, and you will get the proper boy you deserve


she is not a proper person at all








smile


good luck
It's a pity we couldn't see a pic of both of you to see where the problem is!





But the fact that she's, 'she's bony as a twig,no breasts,no butt,' doesn't mean that she shouldn't be attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, trust me, and she may be sweet talking and goes to the job too!





Need to see a pic tough....
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