I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and a week now. I love him so much. We had a really rocky patch a few months back but we stuck it out. Now, I knew before I started dating him, that he had a lot of friends that were girls. I thought I would be one of those girls secure with herself, and that I wouldn't turn into a psycho. Well I did turn into one of those jealous girls. I hate it but, I have had problems with guys talking to ';Just Friends'; in the past and turns out there was something more. He originally told me that he and this girl were just friends. A few weeks into dating he mentioned that they had gone out but it just didn't work and they didn't talk for months. Now this girl is by my standards ';gorgeous'; shes a size 1...3 maybe, has big boobs, long blonde hair and blue eyes.( I'm pretty happy with my body.I've been told aside from the boob size I'm built like my idol Dita Von Teese so no complaints there) I've had bad experiences with girls like that stealing guys I was going for away from me. In December, on a day I was going Christmas shopping for him, this girl decided she wanted to come over and practice guitar with him ( she plays metal guitar..I just listen to metal music). Of course it had to be a day I couldn't come over. A week before that she had asked my boyfriend if he knew any good single guys. When he said he had one he knew she would like she replied ';YOU??? I thought you had a girlfriend already silly!!!'; My boyfriend doesn't understand just how evil girls can be, and laughed it off. He thinks that if he says he has a girlfriend automatically girls get the message. He doesn't see all the girls eyeballing him when we go out. I've watched girls follow us around the store and try and brush past him, until I give them the ';I'll poke your eyes out b**** '; look. Now back to this girl. I told him I didn't like them talking until I met her and saw how they were together. It nearly caused us to break up because he said I didn't like any of his ';girl friends';. ( NOT TRUE: His one friend is amazing and we get along great. She always makes sure at parties she has to introduce me as his girlfriend.And she is very down to earth.) This girl...she began IM-ing him while I was at my job for 8 hours. I quit that job a while ago, but when I would come home at 2:30 and walk into my room he would quickly shut down the IM box. Turns out she would be talking to him for hours each day. We had a huge discussion about him talking to her, and eventually they just quit talking. We got into a fight recently, and go F*n figure this girl who hasn't been online for months, signs back on, and as he IM's her she was all '; OMG THATS SO FUNNY! I was just thinking about talking to you today!!!';. He has invited her to hang out with us before, and she's always too busy when she knows I'll be there, but when she was going to come play guitar when he lived at his parents house %26amp; knew it would just be the two of them. Well she had time until she got called into work or something...IDK exactly why she changed plans that day it was something like that.
I don't know..Now that they are talking again and she is back on-line they are talking a few times a week. I don't mind him talking to ';girl friends'; considering I'm mutual friends with the one, but this girl...I just have a horrible feeling about her. I don't know is my seething jealous wrong? Or should I still keep an eye on this? Jealousy towards my boyfriend's ';girl friend';?
okay, first off, your feelings are SO normal. jealousy is how us girls show we care. im in college, and i swear to you, the girls get hotter, and more aggressive, it's awful.
it's cute when a girl gets jealous, and understandable, but at times, you must keep it to yourself or you'll scare your man away! insecurity is SO unattractive, i'm sure you've seen other couples display it. don't be the idiot girlfriend who had a great boyfriend but couldn't believe he was all hers! he would not stay with you if he didn't love you. quit focusing on her, and focus on him!! buy some sexy lingerie and and show off your body for him, clearly, your boyfriend likes a confident woman. or if you aren't participating in that yet -- bake him some of his favorite treats and hide a sweet note in it.
and always keep your eye out, but don't let it stress you out like this.
good luck!!Jealousy towards my boyfriend's ';girl friend';?
keep an eye out...do everything in ur power to get her out of the pic. Girls cannot be trusted no matter what, she sounds like a whore. Goodluck, get her out of his life and fast!
Your first instincts are usually always right. It sounds like something might be going on between them. I would keep an eye on them.
calm down, hes not with her or something
All about trust here..if you love him, trust him no matter what
You should break up with him. He clearly will not stop being ';friends'; with girls no matter what you say to him. If I were you I would tell him, calmly '; i thought I could handle you having so many female friends. But when I found out you dated one of your female friends thats where I draw the line. She is an EX for a reason. You should not be friends with an ex. I do not feel comfortable around (specific girls name) her and I dont want to see you anymore if you continue to call her and see her. I should be more important than some friend of yours.'; And if he doesnt take you seriously or chooses that girl over you, you have your answer. He will always choose her (or them) over you then. No matter what. So when she tries to steal your man he will not know what hit him until he is under her spell, and by then doesnt care about you anymore to see you were right.
So you need to give him the ultimatum
';me or her'; Plain and simple.
My BF does not have any female friends. He has male friends only. Some have GFs that he is friendly with but only because they are his friends' GFs. My BF is NOT friends with any of his ';exs'; nor would I allow him to be. And the same goes for me. I really dont have any male friends and I do not speak to any exs of mine.
Exs are exs for a reason which means never speak to them again!
i'm really sorry you are going through a hard time. i'm a jealous girlfriend sometimes ti so i understand what you are telling me.
you can either have faith in your love and if you thinks he treats you the way you want and that you feel really confident with him and he wouldn't do anything, just trust him
however, please talk to him, calmly about it and tell him that although you really trust him, it's that girl/those girls you don't trust. and be sure and don't tell him ';you shouldn't'; or ';don't talk to her'; just tell him that it makes you feel bad and unhappy.
if he loves you he should try to help you and the relationship you have together.
if you know he will just say no and never stop talking or change anything for you...i don't know... it won't mean he doesn't love you...it may just mean that he is a bit selfish and is not trying to put the same effort as you are putting trying so hard to understand and be a good girlfriend
you both have to work it out. BOTH OF YOU
All the best! GOOD LUCK!
The answer to your question depends entirelly on you....and him.
Do you trust him?
If yes. Then tell him your concern. Tell him it bothers you. Tell him why. ONCE. and then drop it forever.
If no.....I think you know what to do.
i have always been the type to have more male friends than female friends but I'll tell you one thing; once i get into a relationship with a guy and hes my boyfriend I no longer hang out on a one-on-one basis with my male friends. Its my own personal rule that I set for myself in order to keep the respect for my boyfriend. I will still talk and catch up with my male friends wether its on the phone or in this case like ur boyfriend; on IMs......... but honestly i feel there is a line that should be drawn somewhere. Yes you do need to trust him but if youre the only one doing any compromising then its not a fair relationship. Perhaps if you just ask him to respect the fact that youre not comfortable with him being one-on-one with his girl friends then he can at least work with you on that. Trust me, im all about keeping friendships regardless of new relationships because its not fair to throw away an old friend just because youve met someone new BUT like i said.. theres a line that needs to be drawn in order to keep the new relationship happy. If hes not willing to compromise at all, you might want to take a break and really think about what youre willing to put up with in order to be happy.
Saturday, August 21, 2010
I have feelings a girl with a boyfriend. I can't get rid of these feelings. What should I do?
I try to see other girls but when I kiss them I keeping thinking about her (I seem to imagine that I'm kissing her).
I still have very strong feeling for her but she has a boyfriend. I never told her how I felt because I don't want to ruin our friendship and I also sort of work with her too.
The girl is way out of my league according to my friends.I have feelings a girl with a boyfriend. I can't get rid of these feelings. What should I do?
sadly, you cant do anything, just be friends and u never know what might happen in the futureI have feelings a girl with a boyfriend. I can't get rid of these feelings. What should I do?
just move on, u'll be fine
Your friends are probably trying to spare your feelings, and having the opposite result.
Find a way to ';just be friends'; with this girl. Keep up conversation, share a little secret or two, and never do anything to break her trust, like telling her you fantasize about her naked.
Chances are the current b/f will go away sooner or later. The key is to be patient. When that happens, she'll need comfort and reassurance, and who better to provide it than her trusted friend. If things are meant to be, nature will take it's course.
If they're not meant to be, at least you'll know, and you can join the millions of other guys who have to settle for fantasizing about girls they can't have. Odds are pretty good that you'll eventually find one you're really into that you CAN have. It might even happen while you're being patient with the other one!
Good luck!
stay friends
what the hell is a league anyways, i think any guy can get any girl under the right circumstance
Work to attract her. If she still doesn't respond, find another girl who looks just like her, and see if she can compete for you. If not, you found a new girl anyway, so who needs her. Maybe you like her too much and put her on a pedestal, not seeing her faults. She has them, all women do. Good luck.
if she is with someone or isnt interested in you then stop trying to live a fantasy or it will end up bad for both of you or just you. you need to stop trying to get with her and just be friends at best. its not fair to her bf if you try to steal her from him and youll make an awkward situation for both of you if you try to take it further and she had no idea you felt that way. if she really wants to be with you then she will come onto you just stop trying to get with her and stay with other girls.
How would you like for a guy to hit on your girlfriend? Put yourself in his place
I still have very strong feeling for her but she has a boyfriend. I never told her how I felt because I don't want to ruin our friendship and I also sort of work with her too.
The girl is way out of my league according to my friends.I have feelings a girl with a boyfriend. I can't get rid of these feelings. What should I do?
sadly, you cant do anything, just be friends and u never know what might happen in the futureI have feelings a girl with a boyfriend. I can't get rid of these feelings. What should I do?
just move on, u'll be fine
Your friends are probably trying to spare your feelings, and having the opposite result.
Find a way to ';just be friends'; with this girl. Keep up conversation, share a little secret or two, and never do anything to break her trust, like telling her you fantasize about her naked.
Chances are the current b/f will go away sooner or later. The key is to be patient. When that happens, she'll need comfort and reassurance, and who better to provide it than her trusted friend. If things are meant to be, nature will take it's course.
If they're not meant to be, at least you'll know, and you can join the millions of other guys who have to settle for fantasizing about girls they can't have. Odds are pretty good that you'll eventually find one you're really into that you CAN have. It might even happen while you're being patient with the other one!
Good luck!
stay friends
what the hell is a league anyways, i think any guy can get any girl under the right circumstance
Work to attract her. If she still doesn't respond, find another girl who looks just like her, and see if she can compete for you. If not, you found a new girl anyway, so who needs her. Maybe you like her too much and put her on a pedestal, not seeing her faults. She has them, all women do. Good luck.
if she is with someone or isnt interested in you then stop trying to live a fantasy or it will end up bad for both of you or just you. you need to stop trying to get with her and just be friends at best. its not fair to her bf if you try to steal her from him and youll make an awkward situation for both of you if you try to take it further and she had no idea you felt that way. if she really wants to be with you then she will come onto you just stop trying to get with her and stay with other girls.
How would you like for a guy to hit on your girlfriend? Put yourself in his place
Making boyfriend a convincing girl for halloween?
I am a 17 year old female, and my boyfriend is thin but athletic. I made a bet to a friend that he could pass as a REAL girl at the next Halloween and i want to get a early start. I have to dress him up as a girl of less that 18 years old! I need advice and help! The bet is HUGE and I don't want to loose! I don't know what to do.
He is cool with it because he gets half the money!!
he is prepared to do alot! this should be fun help me
you think i should do eyebrows and nails and all that? it would prob make it more convincing wat u think....
pictures on how i should do his eyebrows would help alot thanksMaking boyfriend a convincing girl for halloween?
Get a stencil, outline it with a pencil, and then start tweezing. Or you could use a razor for eyebrows, or wax. (But that hurts the most!)
I suggest razors. They don't hurt AT ALL.Making boyfriend a convincing girl for halloween?
1 wax his hair and shape his eyebrows
2 get a good girly dress for him
3 put a wig of long silky colored hair
4 teach him to talk like a girl
5 do some good make up to make him look like a GIRL.
6 put nail polish on his long nails
GOOD LUCK!! win the bet
the following keyword searches should be helpful for you
use diffrent combinations of the words
for example Drag queen makeup
Transgendered --- Make up
cross dressing --- beauty (tips, hints, or secrets)
drag queen --- cosmetics
gay --- make over
I also listed one website that came up that helped with eyes etc.
Me and a few girl friends did this to our guy friends/boyfriends, and the result can hardly go wrong.
Well, for starters, wigs are always great, especially on guys, because you don't have any obnoxious pony tail lumps sticking out. Even put something on top of the wig, like a headband or something.
Eyebrows, I'm not an expert on, so pay attention to other people.
Jewelery is always good- get some fake pearls or other costume jewelery from target, they have tons of great stuff. Clip-on earings are also very affective.
Either lend him or buy him a bra- not too large to look sarcastic/exaggerated, but about the size of a 16-18 year old. Stuff it, of course.
Clothes wise, for him being atheletic, I assume that means he probably has some biceps, so don't dress him in a tank top (you'd also have pit hair problems with that) but go for something with bubblier, looser sleaves. Or a shirt-dress. Or a tailored women's blazer. Skirts are great, as well as dresses. Make him wear tights too. If he doesn't feel comfortable walking in heals, just let him wear converses, or something else unisex.
Okay, first you need to wax his eyebrows, then curl his eyelashes and use some mascara, he definitely need some eyeliner and get him comfortable with wearing high heels so it will look more natural when he walks then go to a wig shop for bald people like on the net and get a good one not just a 3.00 Halloween one. Gel his hair down really good and put on the wig. Get some accessories like clips or barrettes and make it look believable, then you just need the clothes. I would make him shave his legs (or do it for him)and wear a skirt, it would be more believable, plus you could shave his arm pits and get a cute T-shirt, and if he has big arm muscles then get a sweater to go over it, you could get some of those silicone bra inserts for him, but a good size, like a B or something and then he would be set.
sure wax his body, also do his nails and eyebrows
He is cool with it because he gets half the money!!
he is prepared to do alot! this should be fun help me
you think i should do eyebrows and nails and all that? it would prob make it more convincing wat u think....
pictures on how i should do his eyebrows would help alot thanksMaking boyfriend a convincing girl for halloween?
Get a stencil, outline it with a pencil, and then start tweezing. Or you could use a razor for eyebrows, or wax. (But that hurts the most!)
I suggest razors. They don't hurt AT ALL.Making boyfriend a convincing girl for halloween?
1 wax his hair and shape his eyebrows
2 get a good girly dress for him
3 put a wig of long silky colored hair
4 teach him to talk like a girl
5 do some good make up to make him look like a GIRL.
6 put nail polish on his long nails
GOOD LUCK!! win the bet
the following keyword searches should be helpful for you
use diffrent combinations of the words
for example Drag queen makeup
Transgendered --- Make up
cross dressing --- beauty (tips, hints, or secrets)
drag queen --- cosmetics
gay --- make over
I also listed one website that came up that helped with eyes etc.
Me and a few girl friends did this to our guy friends/boyfriends, and the result can hardly go wrong.
Well, for starters, wigs are always great, especially on guys, because you don't have any obnoxious pony tail lumps sticking out. Even put something on top of the wig, like a headband or something.
Eyebrows, I'm not an expert on, so pay attention to other people.
Jewelery is always good- get some fake pearls or other costume jewelery from target, they have tons of great stuff. Clip-on earings are also very affective.
Either lend him or buy him a bra- not too large to look sarcastic/exaggerated, but about the size of a 16-18 year old. Stuff it, of course.
Clothes wise, for him being atheletic, I assume that means he probably has some biceps, so don't dress him in a tank top (you'd also have pit hair problems with that) but go for something with bubblier, looser sleaves. Or a shirt-dress. Or a tailored women's blazer. Skirts are great, as well as dresses. Make him wear tights too. If he doesn't feel comfortable walking in heals, just let him wear converses, or something else unisex.
Okay, first you need to wax his eyebrows, then curl his eyelashes and use some mascara, he definitely need some eyeliner and get him comfortable with wearing high heels so it will look more natural when he walks then go to a wig shop for bald people like on the net and get a good one not just a 3.00 Halloween one. Gel his hair down really good and put on the wig. Get some accessories like clips or barrettes and make it look believable, then you just need the clothes. I would make him shave his legs (or do it for him)and wear a skirt, it would be more believable, plus you could shave his arm pits and get a cute T-shirt, and if he has big arm muscles then get a sweater to go over it, you could get some of those silicone bra inserts for him, but a good size, like a B or something and then he would be set.
sure wax his body, also do his nails and eyebrows
Should I make friends with my boyfriends girl friend?
Ok so my boyfriend met this girl about Id say a little bit over a week ago and hes always saying shes so cool and that we have alot in common also that shes so much like me and its so crazy!
he insists were going to be bestfriends an wants me to meet her badly or so it seems..but the thing is he talks about her alot almost like me and her are the same! and once I was on the phone and he was normal but the minute she poped up he seemd and happy and bubbly! I dont want to make it seem like he likes her or jump to conclusions because I hate it when he gets jelouse and Ive only been jelous of 2 girls since weve been together in our 3year relationship..but it just seems like its getting out of hand and everytime I say something like we'll see if we'll be good friends or not he keeps insisting and saying ';trust me you will!..I know what Im talking about'; and its not that I don't trust my boyfriend I mean I could have it all wrong and maybe Im overreacting but it just seems kind of strange how he seems to have gotten so attached to her so quickly..she even said that hes her bestfriend! and he was so happy about it and kept telling me about how she said that so I really don't know what to do..now he wants to introduce us tomorrow but I don't know what to do!? should I go threw with it? what should I say when we talk? how should I start a convo? what if she flirts with him infront of me or somthing? I dont know what to do! help!!!Should I make friends with my boyfriends girl friend?
Sounds like he might really just want to be friends with her, right now at least. I would definitely go meet her and try to be friends with her. If you don't go he will probably get offended and wonder what the deal is. Before you go I would let him know that it's bothering you he is so attached, let him know you don't mind her being his friend but to make sure he doesn't take it too far. If he starts flirting with her in front of you try your best to play it off like it doesn't bother you and when you leave tell him you caught him. Chances are he will say he wasn't flirting... if he gets defensive about it you have a problem and you either need to make him stop being friends with him or start looking around because good chance something is going to happen. You know him better than anyone so just feel him out, you know when hes acting strange. The worst thing YOU can do is not talk to him or let him know whats on your mind.Should I make friends with my boyfriends girl friend?
What's his ulterior motive? I think he's totally bogus and that he has already moved on and is just stringing you along. For you to be asking this question shows that you think so too. Tell him exactly how you feel and be prepared to move on. He's wasting your time.
grrrr you should meet her and then punch her in the vag.
i think we both know why they get along so well... and there's nothing wrong with getting what you want. you dont want her to hang around him and you dont want to be friends with her, so just prevent it!
I think you should befriend her cause it seems to me that he really would want you two to hit it off. If he says you guys are a lot in common, just start a convo of what you like.
i once walked to class on the weekend. once i realized that class was not going on, i turned to the left and ran. where did i run?
Yes, by all means go meet her. He's very interested in you doing so. You should always know your boyfriend's friends, and it's more suspicious if they say ';no you can't meet her';.
I think its good to always make friends with as many people as you can
yoiu dont hace to be best friendss with her
just casual stuff
you guys must have something in common if your boyfriend likes both of you
Yeah to know her that way if yall cool if your boyfriend try to do something not saying he would she wouldnt allow it. Just get to know her its nothing wrong with you getn to know his friends
I wouldnt like it if my bf was best friends with a girl. I think when your in a relationship, you should only casually be acquainted with ppl of the opposite sex
I think we both know what you have to do. Just be sure to hide the body where no one will find it.
goth.
tell him that.
i wouldnt want to be friends with her. it will make things to complicated
i would at least try to be her friend
yes
yes
dont trust her. he could fall for her so easalie. if shes like you u should tyr to keep his focuse on you
I think his attraction for this girl is a bit unhealthy.He appears to be creating in her a twin like or mirror image of you.His feelings have been split between you and I fear that it might seem normal for him to have a relationship with the both of you at the same time.Talk to him about how you feel.because he may not realise what is happening to him,and I doubt that he truly wishes to harm your relationship.This other girl may only think of your b/f as a ';best friend only';,no sexual attraction,but she could have a different agenda.Meet her,talk with her and you might get a better understanding and perspective.You never know she might turn out to be a a good friend to you.Best of luck..
Yes, make friends with her. You are over reacting. If your boyfriend wanted to break up with you, then he would have done it during the 3 years that you have been going out. You should be more worried if he kept all of this a secret from you. He's telling you something and expects you to trust him. She is just a friend. Everyone is happy to meet people that understand them.
if i were you I would not be ok with that at all ... Your suppose to be his best friend and everything. That seems a little to wierd and who knows his ';best friend' probably likes him more than a friend and that is just wrong. Just talk to him and tell him whats goin on with this new friend of yours and that you feel a little uncomfortable about their friendship. If it were me I would start askin questions asap...but yea do what ur gut tells you becuz now a days girls do not care if a man is taken or not.. they want sumthin they will get it point blank
Yes make friends with her because at least then if you don't like her and she is after your man you have your eyes on her but also remember to keep your eyes on him he seems to like her a lot. If at any time you feel they are getting to close you have to tell your boyfriend you feel this way rather than it boiling over and leading to a fight which would only help the girls situation if shes interested in him.
Make friends with her!!! Maybe then she will respect u enough 2 stop playing 4 the guy (if she is). And if she flirts in front of u dont get all jealous and protective. If u want 2 embarrass her just giggle and say ';wow, flirty arent we?';
And a boy i no (lets call him austin) talked about his gf to me 4 years. He was always trying to arrange for us 2 meet, for the same reasons. We ended up meeting at soccer practice without his help, and we were best friends ever since. Austin was just thrilled that we were friends.
And anyway, if he were cheating, why would he want u 2 meet the girl? Also, he says shes so much like u. This means he obviously likes those same qualities in both u and the other girl, so why would he ever switch girls?
GOOD LUCK, hope this helps!!!
There is a book called Blackout Enlighten that shares a journey with love and relationship, experience of happiness of loving someone and being loved, and the wonderful feeling of being complete. You can order this book on the Barnes and Nobel website or Amazon i really recommend it. You should trust your boyfriend, especially if you have not caught him cheating. Most guys who have friends that our girls are most of the time just friends, you can tell if there was something going on between them, he would not talk about her as much nor get all happy acting when the three of you all are around each other. Trust yourself and know that your man is yours, whatever you do tomorrow make sure you don't have your guard up, be confident and know that you are the best woman for your man.
yeah i'd go see her! as a matter of fact i'd be really interested to go see who she is and what she looks like! if he liked her that way then he wouldn't be talking about her in front of you.. just go see what's going on. see if she's got any bad intentions and trying to come between you two. if she flirted with him i'd say give her a dirty look! i'd do it! i mean what the heck. don't be too nice in front of her cuz then she thinks you're stupid! don't get too close with her either. see what's really going on and what she wants. I mean if he's with u, why does she says to him that he's her best friend. that's kinda odd for her to get so close with him all of a sudden. go find out girl! and smack the ***** down if she was getting too nice with ur bf! I mean what the hell! i'd be jealous as hell!wavy hair wwe myspace
he insists were going to be bestfriends an wants me to meet her badly or so it seems..but the thing is he talks about her alot almost like me and her are the same! and once I was on the phone and he was normal but the minute she poped up he seemd and happy and bubbly! I dont want to make it seem like he likes her or jump to conclusions because I hate it when he gets jelouse and Ive only been jelous of 2 girls since weve been together in our 3year relationship..but it just seems like its getting out of hand and everytime I say something like we'll see if we'll be good friends or not he keeps insisting and saying ';trust me you will!..I know what Im talking about'; and its not that I don't trust my boyfriend I mean I could have it all wrong and maybe Im overreacting but it just seems kind of strange how he seems to have gotten so attached to her so quickly..she even said that hes her bestfriend! and he was so happy about it and kept telling me about how she said that so I really don't know what to do..now he wants to introduce us tomorrow but I don't know what to do!? should I go threw with it? what should I say when we talk? how should I start a convo? what if she flirts with him infront of me or somthing? I dont know what to do! help!!!Should I make friends with my boyfriends girl friend?
Sounds like he might really just want to be friends with her, right now at least. I would definitely go meet her and try to be friends with her. If you don't go he will probably get offended and wonder what the deal is. Before you go I would let him know that it's bothering you he is so attached, let him know you don't mind her being his friend but to make sure he doesn't take it too far. If he starts flirting with her in front of you try your best to play it off like it doesn't bother you and when you leave tell him you caught him. Chances are he will say he wasn't flirting... if he gets defensive about it you have a problem and you either need to make him stop being friends with him or start looking around because good chance something is going to happen. You know him better than anyone so just feel him out, you know when hes acting strange. The worst thing YOU can do is not talk to him or let him know whats on your mind.Should I make friends with my boyfriends girl friend?
What's his ulterior motive? I think he's totally bogus and that he has already moved on and is just stringing you along. For you to be asking this question shows that you think so too. Tell him exactly how you feel and be prepared to move on. He's wasting your time.
grrrr you should meet her and then punch her in the vag.
i think we both know why they get along so well... and there's nothing wrong with getting what you want. you dont want her to hang around him and you dont want to be friends with her, so just prevent it!
I think you should befriend her cause it seems to me that he really would want you two to hit it off. If he says you guys are a lot in common, just start a convo of what you like.
i once walked to class on the weekend. once i realized that class was not going on, i turned to the left and ran. where did i run?
Yes, by all means go meet her. He's very interested in you doing so. You should always know your boyfriend's friends, and it's more suspicious if they say ';no you can't meet her';.
I think its good to always make friends with as many people as you can
yoiu dont hace to be best friendss with her
just casual stuff
you guys must have something in common if your boyfriend likes both of you
Yeah to know her that way if yall cool if your boyfriend try to do something not saying he would she wouldnt allow it. Just get to know her its nothing wrong with you getn to know his friends
I wouldnt like it if my bf was best friends with a girl. I think when your in a relationship, you should only casually be acquainted with ppl of the opposite sex
I think we both know what you have to do. Just be sure to hide the body where no one will find it.
goth.
tell him that.
i wouldnt want to be friends with her. it will make things to complicated
i would at least try to be her friend
yes
yes
dont trust her. he could fall for her so easalie. if shes like you u should tyr to keep his focuse on you
I think his attraction for this girl is a bit unhealthy.He appears to be creating in her a twin like or mirror image of you.His feelings have been split between you and I fear that it might seem normal for him to have a relationship with the both of you at the same time.Talk to him about how you feel.because he may not realise what is happening to him,and I doubt that he truly wishes to harm your relationship.This other girl may only think of your b/f as a ';best friend only';,no sexual attraction,but she could have a different agenda.Meet her,talk with her and you might get a better understanding and perspective.You never know she might turn out to be a a good friend to you.Best of luck..
Yes, make friends with her. You are over reacting. If your boyfriend wanted to break up with you, then he would have done it during the 3 years that you have been going out. You should be more worried if he kept all of this a secret from you. He's telling you something and expects you to trust him. She is just a friend. Everyone is happy to meet people that understand them.
if i were you I would not be ok with that at all ... Your suppose to be his best friend and everything. That seems a little to wierd and who knows his ';best friend' probably likes him more than a friend and that is just wrong. Just talk to him and tell him whats goin on with this new friend of yours and that you feel a little uncomfortable about their friendship. If it were me I would start askin questions asap...but yea do what ur gut tells you becuz now a days girls do not care if a man is taken or not.. they want sumthin they will get it point blank
Yes make friends with her because at least then if you don't like her and she is after your man you have your eyes on her but also remember to keep your eyes on him he seems to like her a lot. If at any time you feel they are getting to close you have to tell your boyfriend you feel this way rather than it boiling over and leading to a fight which would only help the girls situation if shes interested in him.
Make friends with her!!! Maybe then she will respect u enough 2 stop playing 4 the guy (if she is). And if she flirts in front of u dont get all jealous and protective. If u want 2 embarrass her just giggle and say ';wow, flirty arent we?';
And a boy i no (lets call him austin) talked about his gf to me 4 years. He was always trying to arrange for us 2 meet, for the same reasons. We ended up meeting at soccer practice without his help, and we were best friends ever since. Austin was just thrilled that we were friends.
And anyway, if he were cheating, why would he want u 2 meet the girl? Also, he says shes so much like u. This means he obviously likes those same qualities in both u and the other girl, so why would he ever switch girls?
GOOD LUCK, hope this helps!!!
There is a book called Blackout Enlighten that shares a journey with love and relationship, experience of happiness of loving someone and being loved, and the wonderful feeling of being complete. You can order this book on the Barnes and Nobel website or Amazon i really recommend it. You should trust your boyfriend, especially if you have not caught him cheating. Most guys who have friends that our girls are most of the time just friends, you can tell if there was something going on between them, he would not talk about her as much nor get all happy acting when the three of you all are around each other. Trust yourself and know that your man is yours, whatever you do tomorrow make sure you don't have your guard up, be confident and know that you are the best woman for your man.
yeah i'd go see her! as a matter of fact i'd be really interested to go see who she is and what she looks like! if he liked her that way then he wouldn't be talking about her in front of you.. just go see what's going on. see if she's got any bad intentions and trying to come between you two. if she flirted with him i'd say give her a dirty look! i'd do it! i mean what the heck. don't be too nice in front of her cuz then she thinks you're stupid! don't get too close with her either. see what's really going on and what she wants. I mean if he's with u, why does she says to him that he's her best friend. that's kinda odd for her to get so close with him all of a sudden. go find out girl! and smack the ***** down if she was getting too nice with ur bf! I mean what the hell! i'd be jealous as hell!
Hey everyone please help. there is a girl that i have very strong feelings for but she has a boyfriend.?
Hey everyone please help. there is a girl that i have very strong feelings for but she has a boyfriend.?
this girl already said she likes me and she is confused. her boyfriend is an abusive jealouse dick. and judging by what she sais she will dump him soon to be with me. can i get some advice here on how to make this process smoother and to ensure that it works in my favor. or just any advice would help. thanks!!Hey everyone please help. there is a girl that i have very strong feelings for but she has a boyfriend.?
TELL HER, it sound as if she likes you. Youve got nothing to lose act now or regret later.
Good Luck.
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Hey everyone please help. there is a girl that i have very strong feelings for but she has a boyfriend.?
Just be there for her when she is sad and stuff, like when she needs to talk to someone after her and her boyfriend have had a fight.. However, make sure you don't between them, let them breakup because of each other, not because of you.. So, give her space as well..
if hes mean to her and finds out your trying to take her away, hes probably going to come after you if you make your presence known. So let her sort it out with her boyfriend and hopefully they break up, you can't make her break up with him you just have to sit back and be patient. Eventually they will break up, the amount of time it takes to do that varies from relationship to relationship though. Just be supportive to her and show her how happy she will be with you and how you'll take care of her properly.
Hope it all works out
she could just be using you as an excuse to get away from the b/f.
if she's not happy, anything will be better than what she has one day she will wake up and realise that maybe your not what she wants after all, but you were there for her when she needed you!
so what, go on tell her that you love her, and let her decide,
Tip - Gift her flowers daily, start with Pink roses, then gradually she be yours one day!
You must like drama... otherwise, you'd already have moved on. It sounds like this girl is only happy with a dramatic issue and a lot of attention. I see it happen all too often... move on
Never ever be the rebound guy because she'll do the same thing to you later on, as soon as things don't go her way you'll be dumped too. Start off being her friend and give her time to heal from the pain and emotional stress this last guy has put her through. I use to be the queen of rebounding and in the end the guy that I rebounded to got dumped for someone else, I didn't stop doing that until I took 5mos. off from dating and rebound sex. Now I've met a wonderful guy and the problems from my past relationships never come up.
Stay out of it until she brakes up with him.
Be cool with her. And try to help her. Tell her she is better than that, and deserves u over that abusive asshole. The best strategy, is to give it some time. She just needs to build up to leaving him. She'll do it sooner or later.
this girl already said she likes me and she is confused. her boyfriend is an abusive jealouse dick. and judging by what she sais she will dump him soon to be with me. can i get some advice here on how to make this process smoother and to ensure that it works in my favor. or just any advice would help. thanks!!Hey everyone please help. there is a girl that i have very strong feelings for but she has a boyfriend.?
TELL HER, it sound as if she likes you. Youve got nothing to lose act now or regret later.
Good Luck.
Help:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Hey everyone please help. there is a girl that i have very strong feelings for but she has a boyfriend.?
Just be there for her when she is sad and stuff, like when she needs to talk to someone after her and her boyfriend have had a fight.. However, make sure you don't between them, let them breakup because of each other, not because of you.. So, give her space as well..
if hes mean to her and finds out your trying to take her away, hes probably going to come after you if you make your presence known. So let her sort it out with her boyfriend and hopefully they break up, you can't make her break up with him you just have to sit back and be patient. Eventually they will break up, the amount of time it takes to do that varies from relationship to relationship though. Just be supportive to her and show her how happy she will be with you and how you'll take care of her properly.
Hope it all works out
she could just be using you as an excuse to get away from the b/f.
if she's not happy, anything will be better than what she has one day she will wake up and realise that maybe your not what she wants after all, but you were there for her when she needed you!
so what, go on tell her that you love her, and let her decide,
Tip - Gift her flowers daily, start with Pink roses, then gradually she be yours one day!
You must like drama... otherwise, you'd already have moved on. It sounds like this girl is only happy with a dramatic issue and a lot of attention. I see it happen all too often... move on
Never ever be the rebound guy because she'll do the same thing to you later on, as soon as things don't go her way you'll be dumped too. Start off being her friend and give her time to heal from the pain and emotional stress this last guy has put her through. I use to be the queen of rebounding and in the end the guy that I rebounded to got dumped for someone else, I didn't stop doing that until I took 5mos. off from dating and rebound sex. Now I've met a wonderful guy and the problems from my past relationships never come up.
Stay out of it until she brakes up with him.
Be cool with her. And try to help her. Tell her she is better than that, and deserves u over that abusive asshole. The best strategy, is to give it some time. She just needs to build up to leaving him. She'll do it sooner or later.
Are there guys that can practically get with almost any girl?
And if so, how do they fair with girls with boyfriends?
If they exist, I may work with one. He’s 33, 6’1”, in decent shape, and something of a player. I know he’s had his way with a good number of women, but he brags a little bit too much. He said he gauged from her body language at a Christmas party that he could score my gf if he tried. I almost decked him, but I told him – you don’t know her if that’s what you think.
Foolishly, its turned into a wager. And the stakes aren’t low: he’s going to give me all of his billable hours for a case we’re working on (we’re both associates at a civil defense law firm, and billable hours are of incredible value.) one way or the other with my end of the wager being fulfilled if I have the guts not step in the way and let him do what he has to. If I block her, or if I refuse to allow it to be confirmed (ie I’ll let him ask my gf at the next function in a way that doesn’t reveal the wager), I have to give him my billables. Our billable are due at the end of the month, so that put a pretty good time limit on things.
On Jan 12 there was a bar association function, and he fairly openly flirted with my wife. He even asked to dance with her. I didn’t step in, and they danced a little, but at the end of the night she came home with me. I called him, and said guese your game is over – and he said, not necessarily. Give him until this Saturday morning, and if he hasn’t gotten anything by Friday night, he’ll throw in the towel. But don’t count on it.
Then, out of nowhere, my gf says that she is going out on Friday with her one friend. She goes out with her friends once or twice a month, so that she’s going out is no big deal – but why just this one this time? And the timing!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m worried, but I guesse I brought this on myself. I still trust her. But still – what are the odds?Are there guys that can practically get with almost any girl?
uhhh... im sorry im lost.Are there guys that can practically get with almost any girl?
Look you shouldn't be doing this kind of stuff in the first place!! This is the best way of loosing your girlfriend/wife. Just grow up and stop being stupid. If she loves you then she won't go off with anyone. Just don't let her find out what you've done or you will loose her and no mistake!!! Silly man.
Not sure but a standing C*ck has no conscious
i disagree with the other reviews... if you love someone, and let them go, if they come back, they love you back, if not, they never really did... good luck bro!
To answer your question, I don't think that there's any one guy who can have any girl he wants (especially this one.) He's clearly not only extrememly self-absorbed and neurotic, but a complete *** for choosing your girlfriend to seduce.Women appreciate and recognize good, honest guys and while he might have her fooled initially, she will most likely seize him up for what he really is. This guy seems very threatened, either by you or some other aspect of his life. By trying to prove to you that he could convince your girlfriend to cheat on you with him, he's attemping to validate himself. While it is understandable that you might want to ';prove to yourself'; that she won't cheat on you by not talking to her and waiting to see what happens, it would be much healthier for both of you if you discuss this.If she understands what's going on, she won't have an affair regardless of whather she was planning to or not. Ask her not to tell him about your discussion and let him assume that he lost. Whatever you do, don't let his minipulative games come between you and her.
I can not believe that you took this wager on! If your partner finds out (which she probably will) then she is not going to be happy with you and it may even be the end of your relationship. Is that what you want? There are some blokes with no morals who will go with other people's wifes / girlfriends and think that is ok so it might happen. He is obviously not a friend if he is doing this to you and you are showing your partner no respect by letting this happen. Call it off now before it ruins your life.
The odds are good that he will get your girl.By not ';block[ing]'; his actions, you just opened the door. He knew what he was doing when he asked you to let him conduct his business without interference.
When you let him flirt and dance with her; you gave your girlfriend the message that you aren't paying enough attention to her and that you don't care what she does and who she does it with. He very likely planted the seed; and you confirmed it by being so nonchalant.
Women want to be desired. If he seems to desire her more than you do, it's over.
This is all hypothetical: you probably don't have a gf or wife (you can't even rember which she is)
You are playing with fire my friend, very foolish............
if she loves you she wont do anything and if that guy is a friend of yours he shouldn't be pulling that sh*t. I really don't know what to tell you.
If you two really love eachother chances are she won't, but just betting on that obviously made you not trust her. It's not a good idea to do that. Maybe you should confess to her...
honestly are you stupid? you do not bet on that kinda things!
if she goes off with him it will be your own fault
Sounds like the plot for a film..starring Robert Redford..let's call it 'Indecent Proposal' lol!
I don't think any guy could have ';ANY'; girl.
Be really nice to the GF for the next few weeks. Show her you love her more than ever before and she'll be less likely to stray.
On the other hand, this could be a good time to find out what kind of woman she is. I realize that billables are very important, but don't know what to know what she'll do?
I think he should have to prove what he did. A picture is in order.
Good luck, I hope she doesn't cheat and you get his billables.
I'm sorry to say, these people do exist.
How far is this supposed to go? Does he just have to go out with her one night to win the bet or does he need to sleep with her? This could be a huge turning point, you must have trusted her to so easily make the bet, so if you win you'll see you trust was deserved. But if you lose, what will you do? If she cheats on you, you can't really stay with her, it just wouldn't work.
But how does he prove he's done it? Does he tell you where and you just happen to turn up?
Good luck, but personally, I don't trust her.
Yeah, you definitely brought this on yourself. Is there anyone you can call who can find out for you if this friend really made plans with your gf?
It's possible, but this is a good test for both of you. If she loves you, she'll realize that shes not doign the right thing and doesnt want to be with this tool. Otherwise, I guess your in for a suprise.
Wow. That sounds pretty complicated. I was with a guy who sounds similar to this other guy you were talking about. He was very handsome, smart, funny...but he was a player. He ended up cheating on me...so I kinda know how that is. If I were you, I would probably have decked him out. Haha, I know that sounds bad. So about your girlfriend, did she flirt back with him? I think you should confront her about it. It may lead to a fight...but it's just something that you gotta work at. If she really loves you, she would have the capacity to tell you the truth. I wish you the best of luck :)
To answer the first part of your question, no. No matter how rich, or good looking, or suave, or famous a guy is, there is no Dhali Llama of the horizontal polka. There will always be women who have enough self-respect to avoid being easy. Then of course there's the entire lesbian population, but whether they count as ';being on the radar'; is more of a matter of personal opinion.
For the second part of your question... seriously, you shouldn't have even made that wager in the first place. First, its reeaallyy disrespectful to your girlfriend and women in general to bet on her faithfulness. If she were to ever find out the truth behind this predicament, I guarantee that things will not end well for you or your relationship. Second, if you knew your friend was a Casanova and you are so concerned about the loyalty of your girlfriend, then why would you even agree to the wager in the first place?
If you truly love your girlfriend and if you are truly worried that she might be unfaithful, then you should go to your ';friend'; IN PERSON and lay down the law. Tell him that it was a stupid thing to do and that you refuse to take part in the wager anymore. As a matter of fact, you should insist that there was no wager in the first place. If this guy has any amount of respect for his fellow man, he'll understand and things will go on as if nothing ever happened. If he doesn't comply, and if I were in your shoes, I would seriously have no arguments against decimating his pretty-boy face until he couldn't recognize himself anymore.
But either way, you're kind of in a rough spot. You could either let things play out and possibly lose your girl, or you could swallow your pride and end the bet here and now. Between you and me, I'd go with the latter. Besides, in the off-chance that you get beat up, you'll get brownie points for defending her honor!
Yup, I didn;t read this whole monologue, but if that is how you communicate with her...you're screwd
He'll be nut-deep by Newsnight
Your a fool, some guys believe they can have any woman they want and as a result generaly do.
You need to trust your gf. if she is going out with the girls and you accuse her af anything she will be heart broken when you explain the bet. Also if something does happen with this other guy the its obvoious you shouldnt be together long term. Just dont tell him she is going out, then see if he says anything after friday if he does then confront your gf
hope you have learnt a lesson from all this.
That's pretty screwed up and she's going to kick your *** when she find's out she's at the bottom of a stupid bet.
Is she your wife or gf? You referred to her as one or the other atleast on two occassions that I read.
Tricky game you are playing there!!If your girlfreind loves you then you have nothing to worry about!!Lets hope that this big head that you work with is proven wrong and your girlfreind turns him down!! x
See... the reason i do not believe this is simple... the one paragraph in the middle... you call her your wife. So you screwed the story up. But nice story. I mean... seriously. Very close to a twisted Indecent Proposal. I like your story telling and i like the stakes. I just WISH you wouldnt have called her your wife at the Bar association party.
';On Jan 12 there was a bar association function, and he fairly openly flirted with my wife. He even asked to dance with her.';
Ruined it for me. But to answer your question, no. Their is no oe that can get with anyone. Now, their probably ARE women that can get any man. So... look out!
If they exist, I may work with one. He’s 33, 6’1”, in decent shape, and something of a player. I know he’s had his way with a good number of women, but he brags a little bit too much. He said he gauged from her body language at a Christmas party that he could score my gf if he tried. I almost decked him, but I told him – you don’t know her if that’s what you think.
Foolishly, its turned into a wager. And the stakes aren’t low: he’s going to give me all of his billable hours for a case we’re working on (we’re both associates at a civil defense law firm, and billable hours are of incredible value.) one way or the other with my end of the wager being fulfilled if I have the guts not step in the way and let him do what he has to. If I block her, or if I refuse to allow it to be confirmed (ie I’ll let him ask my gf at the next function in a way that doesn’t reveal the wager), I have to give him my billables. Our billable are due at the end of the month, so that put a pretty good time limit on things.
On Jan 12 there was a bar association function, and he fairly openly flirted with my wife. He even asked to dance with her. I didn’t step in, and they danced a little, but at the end of the night she came home with me. I called him, and said guese your game is over – and he said, not necessarily. Give him until this Saturday morning, and if he hasn’t gotten anything by Friday night, he’ll throw in the towel. But don’t count on it.
Then, out of nowhere, my gf says that she is going out on Friday with her one friend. She goes out with her friends once or twice a month, so that she’s going out is no big deal – but why just this one this time? And the timing!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m worried, but I guesse I brought this on myself. I still trust her. But still – what are the odds?Are there guys that can practically get with almost any girl?
uhhh... im sorry im lost.Are there guys that can practically get with almost any girl?
Look you shouldn't be doing this kind of stuff in the first place!! This is the best way of loosing your girlfriend/wife. Just grow up and stop being stupid. If she loves you then she won't go off with anyone. Just don't let her find out what you've done or you will loose her and no mistake!!! Silly man.
Not sure but a standing C*ck has no conscious
i disagree with the other reviews... if you love someone, and let them go, if they come back, they love you back, if not, they never really did... good luck bro!
To answer your question, I don't think that there's any one guy who can have any girl he wants (especially this one.) He's clearly not only extrememly self-absorbed and neurotic, but a complete *** for choosing your girlfriend to seduce.Women appreciate and recognize good, honest guys and while he might have her fooled initially, she will most likely seize him up for what he really is. This guy seems very threatened, either by you or some other aspect of his life. By trying to prove to you that he could convince your girlfriend to cheat on you with him, he's attemping to validate himself. While it is understandable that you might want to ';prove to yourself'; that she won't cheat on you by not talking to her and waiting to see what happens, it would be much healthier for both of you if you discuss this.If she understands what's going on, she won't have an affair regardless of whather she was planning to or not. Ask her not to tell him about your discussion and let him assume that he lost. Whatever you do, don't let his minipulative games come between you and her.
I can not believe that you took this wager on! If your partner finds out (which she probably will) then she is not going to be happy with you and it may even be the end of your relationship. Is that what you want? There are some blokes with no morals who will go with other people's wifes / girlfriends and think that is ok so it might happen. He is obviously not a friend if he is doing this to you and you are showing your partner no respect by letting this happen. Call it off now before it ruins your life.
The odds are good that he will get your girl.By not ';block[ing]'; his actions, you just opened the door. He knew what he was doing when he asked you to let him conduct his business without interference.
When you let him flirt and dance with her; you gave your girlfriend the message that you aren't paying enough attention to her and that you don't care what she does and who she does it with. He very likely planted the seed; and you confirmed it by being so nonchalant.
Women want to be desired. If he seems to desire her more than you do, it's over.
This is all hypothetical: you probably don't have a gf or wife (you can't even rember which she is)
You are playing with fire my friend, very foolish............
if she loves you she wont do anything and if that guy is a friend of yours he shouldn't be pulling that sh*t. I really don't know what to tell you.
If you two really love eachother chances are she won't, but just betting on that obviously made you not trust her. It's not a good idea to do that. Maybe you should confess to her...
honestly are you stupid? you do not bet on that kinda things!
if she goes off with him it will be your own fault
Sounds like the plot for a film..starring Robert Redford..let's call it 'Indecent Proposal' lol!
I don't think any guy could have ';ANY'; girl.
Be really nice to the GF for the next few weeks. Show her you love her more than ever before and she'll be less likely to stray.
On the other hand, this could be a good time to find out what kind of woman she is. I realize that billables are very important, but don't know what to know what she'll do?
I think he should have to prove what he did. A picture is in order.
Good luck, I hope she doesn't cheat and you get his billables.
I'm sorry to say, these people do exist.
How far is this supposed to go? Does he just have to go out with her one night to win the bet or does he need to sleep with her? This could be a huge turning point, you must have trusted her to so easily make the bet, so if you win you'll see you trust was deserved. But if you lose, what will you do? If she cheats on you, you can't really stay with her, it just wouldn't work.
But how does he prove he's done it? Does he tell you where and you just happen to turn up?
Good luck, but personally, I don't trust her.
Yeah, you definitely brought this on yourself. Is there anyone you can call who can find out for you if this friend really made plans with your gf?
It's possible, but this is a good test for both of you. If she loves you, she'll realize that shes not doign the right thing and doesnt want to be with this tool. Otherwise, I guess your in for a suprise.
Wow. That sounds pretty complicated. I was with a guy who sounds similar to this other guy you were talking about. He was very handsome, smart, funny...but he was a player. He ended up cheating on me...so I kinda know how that is. If I were you, I would probably have decked him out. Haha, I know that sounds bad. So about your girlfriend, did she flirt back with him? I think you should confront her about it. It may lead to a fight...but it's just something that you gotta work at. If she really loves you, she would have the capacity to tell you the truth. I wish you the best of luck :)
To answer the first part of your question, no. No matter how rich, or good looking, or suave, or famous a guy is, there is no Dhali Llama of the horizontal polka. There will always be women who have enough self-respect to avoid being easy. Then of course there's the entire lesbian population, but whether they count as ';being on the radar'; is more of a matter of personal opinion.
For the second part of your question... seriously, you shouldn't have even made that wager in the first place. First, its reeaallyy disrespectful to your girlfriend and women in general to bet on her faithfulness. If she were to ever find out the truth behind this predicament, I guarantee that things will not end well for you or your relationship. Second, if you knew your friend was a Casanova and you are so concerned about the loyalty of your girlfriend, then why would you even agree to the wager in the first place?
If you truly love your girlfriend and if you are truly worried that she might be unfaithful, then you should go to your ';friend'; IN PERSON and lay down the law. Tell him that it was a stupid thing to do and that you refuse to take part in the wager anymore. As a matter of fact, you should insist that there was no wager in the first place. If this guy has any amount of respect for his fellow man, he'll understand and things will go on as if nothing ever happened. If he doesn't comply, and if I were in your shoes, I would seriously have no arguments against decimating his pretty-boy face until he couldn't recognize himself anymore.
But either way, you're kind of in a rough spot. You could either let things play out and possibly lose your girl, or you could swallow your pride and end the bet here and now. Between you and me, I'd go with the latter. Besides, in the off-chance that you get beat up, you'll get brownie points for defending her honor!
Yup, I didn;t read this whole monologue, but if that is how you communicate with her...you're screwd
He'll be nut-deep by Newsnight
Your a fool, some guys believe they can have any woman they want and as a result generaly do.
You need to trust your gf. if she is going out with the girls and you accuse her af anything she will be heart broken when you explain the bet. Also if something does happen with this other guy the its obvoious you shouldnt be together long term. Just dont tell him she is going out, then see if he says anything after friday if he does then confront your gf
hope you have learnt a lesson from all this.
That's pretty screwed up and she's going to kick your *** when she find's out she's at the bottom of a stupid bet.
Is she your wife or gf? You referred to her as one or the other atleast on two occassions that I read.
Tricky game you are playing there!!If your girlfreind loves you then you have nothing to worry about!!Lets hope that this big head that you work with is proven wrong and your girlfreind turns him down!! x
See... the reason i do not believe this is simple... the one paragraph in the middle... you call her your wife. So you screwed the story up. But nice story. I mean... seriously. Very close to a twisted Indecent Proposal. I like your story telling and i like the stakes. I just WISH you wouldnt have called her your wife at the Bar association party.
';On Jan 12 there was a bar association function, and he fairly openly flirted with my wife. He even asked to dance with her.';
Ruined it for me. But to answer your question, no. Their is no oe that can get with anyone. Now, their probably ARE women that can get any man. So... look out!
What do i do if the girl i love cheated on her boyfriend with me while drunk?
I'm in love with a girl and we dated for 14 months. We broke up and she got over me but i was unable to get over her and she said she still likes me but has a boyfriend. This girl is not a cheater. She had a party and just about everyone was drunk. She was all over her boyfriend but he didnt drink and he left early. I was sleeping over, along with like 10 other people, and me and her made way to her room and i kissed her. (we were both drunk) we started making out and she put her hands down my pants. We are both totally against cheating and when she was done we both flipped out and wondered what we had just done. She is mad at me now for kissing her and she talks to me but she seems like she doesnt want to talk to me. How should me and her handle this? What can i do to make things between us better? She doesnt want me hanging out with her now because she thinks ill pull the same move. And i am seriously unable to get over her. Thanks.What do i do if the girl i love cheated on her boyfriend with me while drunk?
Respect her wishes. Stay away. She might feel as you have taken advantage of her drunkeness. I know it might feel mutual, but if you we're that drunk and ur not sure, don't do it.
Sorry bro, nothing you can do.What do i do if the girl i love cheated on her boyfriend with me while drunk?
GET HER DRUNK AGAIN AND VIDEO TAPE IT
just pretend it had never happen
If she wanted to be with you, she'd be with you and not her boyfriend. You need to seriously move on and let her go. The fact that you were at her house and the both of you were drunk and her boyfriend left you alone with her says that he trusted you enough not to mess with his girl while he was away. You shouldn't have followed her up to her room. I think you were just looking for an opportunity to get her alone. Move on dude.
Tell her boyfriend what happened and leave her alone.
There isn't anything you can do. You remind her of her own bad behavior, so she'll probably always hate you for leading her astray. You should just say you're sorry and leave her alone. And stop drinking.
Respect her wishes. Stay away. She might feel as you have taken advantage of her drunkeness. I know it might feel mutual, but if you we're that drunk and ur not sure, don't do it.
Sorry bro, nothing you can do.What do i do if the girl i love cheated on her boyfriend with me while drunk?
GET HER DRUNK AGAIN AND VIDEO TAPE IT
just pretend it had never happen
If she wanted to be with you, she'd be with you and not her boyfriend. You need to seriously move on and let her go. The fact that you were at her house and the both of you were drunk and her boyfriend left you alone with her says that he trusted you enough not to mess with his girl while he was away. You shouldn't have followed her up to her room. I think you were just looking for an opportunity to get her alone. Move on dude.
Tell her boyfriend what happened and leave her alone.
There isn't anything you can do. You remind her of her own bad behavior, so she'll probably always hate you for leading her astray. You should just say you're sorry and leave her alone. And stop drinking.
How do I, a plus size girl, find a boyfriend?
I know I'm a great person, blah blah blah, and I have so many friends I could fill two football stadiums. I'm always told I'm cute, pretty, and nice, very funny, and all that great stuff. And I'm not complaining at all, it's just that if I'm so great, then why can't I get a guy to want to be in a serious relationship with me? I just can't understand why someone so great can't find just one person. I know guys judge girls by their outward apperance (we all do it) but the only thing wrong with me is a few extra pounds. Are there any guys out there who don't mind? Where are they? How can I find one? How do I get one to notice me, and not just want to be my friend? I need help. I hate sounding like a baby, but I'm a freshman in college and has never had a real boyfriend..... yeah I know sad isn't it!!!!How do I, a plus size girl, find a boyfriend?
I know it is frustrating..but belive me there is some guys that like bigger woman----I think it is great that you know you want a serious boyfriend and not just somone in your life---keep with what you want---also you will find him when you are no longer looking----trust me stop worrying-----your trying to hard. Jsut losen up and have fun being single! I know easier said then done----but i found my soulmate after not caring if I ever found anyone.
take care hun
and good luck!How do I, a plus size girl, find a boyfriend?
you dont exaclty find a boyfriend. they find you. just wait for the perfect guy.
Yes it will come. I'm 33 years old and single. I prefer to be single than be in a relationship with someone who is not right for me. How are you going about trying to meet other people? Perhaps you should consider joining one of the on line dating sites. Good Luck!
continue to be yourself.. people can sense when someone is desperate .. be confident , dont be overbearing
be a good listener ..
be modest
be YOU
Hey girlfriend there are lots of men who like their women PHAT, Have a great attitude and keep yourself together, when the time is right he'll find you
You don't say how old you are, and that makes a difference. Very young guys are all about superficial things. If you're really young, give it some time. In any case, just be yourself. You want someone who'll appreciate you for yourself, not for the image. Meanwhile, stay fit, walk, lose the junk food and you'll feel better, which will show in your attitude. IMHO you need a new web ID. Moose sounds like you're putting yourself down. If YOU don't think you're great, how can you expect someone else to?
Good Luck!
Different strokes across the face for different folks.
don't be in a hurry. you will find a creat guy in time. try coffee clubs, church, the bowling ally, a health club, camping in the summer and so on
My dear, just what do you call ';a few extra pounds?'; Do you mean you are a size 16 or 26? If you really mean a few, like 30 or so, then you have no problem. If you are grossly obese, it is unlikely you are going to be attractive to men in a sexual or romantic way.
I suggest that you see your doctor, get on a reasonable diet and exercise program and shape up.
One other thing....boys judge by outward appearances. Men see character and inner beauty. Forget the boys and get to know real men.
maybe your standards are too high, try to lower it and things will start to go your way :)
I'm plus sized myself, never had a serious relationship before as all i ever found were guys who just wanted sex or are so shallow they only want a certain looking girl. But i found a really nice guy who likes me for me. It will happen, it might take a while but it will happen.
Just be yourself, thats the best way to find someone who is attracted to you:) If a man cant accept you for who you are he's not worth it.
You will find someone, you just have to be patient. Most guys are probably just looking for the girls who are going to give it up quickly. I'm a college freshman too. You should join some activities that place you in the situation with guys. When you are least expecting it, someone will come along. You can try going off campus to a club or something, and dress nicely, believe me, you will find a guy.
It will come.
There are plenty of MEN that enjoys a big-boned woman. Hold your head up.. maybe you haven't had the RIGHT man step your way please believe he will show up right on time.. A true man looks at the inner soul, look around you Barbie's has gone bye bye. Yes plastic made ones will be around, You have something special to give a good man hold on don't settle for nothing else and its a good thang you didn't find a man that just wants you for your body, You have VALUE hold on to that most woman are walking around here trying to pick up their heart or gain a pound or 2.. Love your self.. that Knight will come enjoy school, life and all gifts that god will and have given you.
first of all, that's not sad because i know alot of people who didn't get a serious relationship till college. Anywayz, just be patient I promise you a great guy will come %26amp; you'll fall madly in love with him. But, it's just taking some time cuz, it's just not your turn yet. Good things happen to people that wait. Remember that. If you patient, that certain someone will come %26amp; sweep you off your feet. GooD LucK %26lt;3
There are lots of men other there that like there woman on the soft side. When you are not looking the right guy will find you. Go to party's and have fun, be yourself, and believe me it will happen.
go for oversize men or lose weight. Sorry but as a normal weight guy, I can get normal weight women. Big huge women, Tried um once and never again.
Don't set your sights too high. Find a guy that likes you for you. Maybe a plus size guy?
Dont worry just continue to be your self. And when the time is right you will find that special guy. As the saying goes ';every jar has a lid.'; Just let what ever is gonna happen happen. Try talking to guys and when least expect it you will find mr. right GOOD LUCK. I hope I helped. God bless you
Some Guys believe in appearance, but that is not all.
You see sometimes personality will win over, but if you have a bad personality it is unlikely you will ever get anyone to date you.
If you have an understanding personality and you can be generous then time will find you a partner.
you see all the pretty girls can be a ***** and have hundreds on boyfriends, but a sincere if slightly overweight girl is more likely to find a partner for life, if She is willing to allow a bit of give and take.
Don't be a *****, there is no reason to be, allow yourself a little more leeway and you will find someone for life.
LOOK ITS VERY EASY TO LOSE WEIGHT...EAT LESS AND EXCERSISE...HOW HARD IS THAT COME ON...WHY WOULD SOMEONE WANT TO BE WITH YOU IF YOU DONT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF??? MEN SEE HEAVY WOMEN AND DONT WANT TO MARY THEM CAUSE THEY CAN SEE THEM GAINING MORE WIGHT AFTER PREGNANCY....WOMEN GAIN WEIGHT AFTER PREGNANCE CAUSE THEY ARE LAZY..I ALSO GAIN WEIGHT BUT MY *** IS RIGHT BACK IN THE GYM AND WORKING OUT...ITS SO SIMPLE..NO SKILL INVOLVED AT ALL..I HOPE YOU START WORKING OUT, YOU WILL HAVE MORE ENERGY AND FEEL MUCH BETTER ABOUT YOURSELFwavy hair wwe myspace
I know it is frustrating..but belive me there is some guys that like bigger woman----I think it is great that you know you want a serious boyfriend and not just somone in your life---keep with what you want---also you will find him when you are no longer looking----trust me stop worrying-----your trying to hard. Jsut losen up and have fun being single! I know easier said then done----but i found my soulmate after not caring if I ever found anyone.
take care hun
and good luck!How do I, a plus size girl, find a boyfriend?
you dont exaclty find a boyfriend. they find you. just wait for the perfect guy.
Yes it will come. I'm 33 years old and single. I prefer to be single than be in a relationship with someone who is not right for me. How are you going about trying to meet other people? Perhaps you should consider joining one of the on line dating sites. Good Luck!
continue to be yourself.. people can sense when someone is desperate .. be confident , dont be overbearing
be a good listener ..
be modest
be YOU
Hey girlfriend there are lots of men who like their women PHAT, Have a great attitude and keep yourself together, when the time is right he'll find you
You don't say how old you are, and that makes a difference. Very young guys are all about superficial things. If you're really young, give it some time. In any case, just be yourself. You want someone who'll appreciate you for yourself, not for the image. Meanwhile, stay fit, walk, lose the junk food and you'll feel better, which will show in your attitude. IMHO you need a new web ID. Moose sounds like you're putting yourself down. If YOU don't think you're great, how can you expect someone else to?
Good Luck!
Different strokes across the face for different folks.
don't be in a hurry. you will find a creat guy in time. try coffee clubs, church, the bowling ally, a health club, camping in the summer and so on
My dear, just what do you call ';a few extra pounds?'; Do you mean you are a size 16 or 26? If you really mean a few, like 30 or so, then you have no problem. If you are grossly obese, it is unlikely you are going to be attractive to men in a sexual or romantic way.
I suggest that you see your doctor, get on a reasonable diet and exercise program and shape up.
One other thing....boys judge by outward appearances. Men see character and inner beauty. Forget the boys and get to know real men.
maybe your standards are too high, try to lower it and things will start to go your way :)
I'm plus sized myself, never had a serious relationship before as all i ever found were guys who just wanted sex or are so shallow they only want a certain looking girl. But i found a really nice guy who likes me for me. It will happen, it might take a while but it will happen.
Just be yourself, thats the best way to find someone who is attracted to you:) If a man cant accept you for who you are he's not worth it.
You will find someone, you just have to be patient. Most guys are probably just looking for the girls who are going to give it up quickly. I'm a college freshman too. You should join some activities that place you in the situation with guys. When you are least expecting it, someone will come along. You can try going off campus to a club or something, and dress nicely, believe me, you will find a guy.
It will come.
There are plenty of MEN that enjoys a big-boned woman. Hold your head up.. maybe you haven't had the RIGHT man step your way please believe he will show up right on time.. A true man looks at the inner soul, look around you Barbie's has gone bye bye. Yes plastic made ones will be around, You have something special to give a good man hold on don't settle for nothing else and its a good thang you didn't find a man that just wants you for your body, You have VALUE hold on to that most woman are walking around here trying to pick up their heart or gain a pound or 2.. Love your self.. that Knight will come enjoy school, life and all gifts that god will and have given you.
first of all, that's not sad because i know alot of people who didn't get a serious relationship till college. Anywayz, just be patient I promise you a great guy will come %26amp; you'll fall madly in love with him. But, it's just taking some time cuz, it's just not your turn yet. Good things happen to people that wait. Remember that. If you patient, that certain someone will come %26amp; sweep you off your feet. GooD LucK %26lt;3
There are lots of men other there that like there woman on the soft side. When you are not looking the right guy will find you. Go to party's and have fun, be yourself, and believe me it will happen.
go for oversize men or lose weight. Sorry but as a normal weight guy, I can get normal weight women. Big huge women, Tried um once and never again.
Don't set your sights too high. Find a guy that likes you for you. Maybe a plus size guy?
Dont worry just continue to be your self. And when the time is right you will find that special guy. As the saying goes ';every jar has a lid.'; Just let what ever is gonna happen happen. Try talking to guys and when least expect it you will find mr. right GOOD LUCK. I hope I helped. God bless you
Some Guys believe in appearance, but that is not all.
You see sometimes personality will win over, but if you have a bad personality it is unlikely you will ever get anyone to date you.
If you have an understanding personality and you can be generous then time will find you a partner.
you see all the pretty girls can be a ***** and have hundreds on boyfriends, but a sincere if slightly overweight girl is more likely to find a partner for life, if She is willing to allow a bit of give and take.
Don't be a *****, there is no reason to be, allow yourself a little more leeway and you will find someone for life.
LOOK ITS VERY EASY TO LOSE WEIGHT...EAT LESS AND EXCERSISE...HOW HARD IS THAT COME ON...WHY WOULD SOMEONE WANT TO BE WITH YOU IF YOU DONT TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF??? MEN SEE HEAVY WOMEN AND DONT WANT TO MARY THEM CAUSE THEY CAN SEE THEM GAINING MORE WIGHT AFTER PREGNANCY....WOMEN GAIN WEIGHT AFTER PREGNANCE CAUSE THEY ARE LAZY..I ALSO GAIN WEIGHT BUT MY *** IS RIGHT BACK IN THE GYM AND WORKING OUT...ITS SO SIMPLE..NO SKILL INVOLVED AT ALL..I HOPE YOU START WORKING OUT, YOU WILL HAVE MORE ENERGY AND FEEL MUCH BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF
Is there anyone out there who is dating a man/woman who's already been married before?
How do you feel being the 'new' girl/boyfriend and there being an ex wife/husband in the picture? My partner is seperated from his wife and will be getting divorced, it feels strange when I hear him say things about his past and refer to his wife as obviously 'his wife' as thats what she is. Maybe I'm being too sensitive, I know he's with me now but I just wondered how other people have handled it???Is there anyone out there who is dating a man/woman who's already been married before?
My perspective may be different because I am separated and going through preparing for a divorce but, I have an interest in a person who is also going through a divorce. I don't have any problem with him mentioning his ex because she was a part of his life and part of what has made him the man that I know now. I figure in some way, pretty much every one has ex's and have come to realize that all that matters is where that person is now and if they are with me, I am satisfied to know that they chose me.Is there anyone out there who is dating a man/woman who's already been married before?
Yes, I am in a very similiar situation right now and it really does suck. The thing is, does he share children with his wife? If not, you can thank your lucky stars that when their divorce is final that if he is commited to you that it's ';so long ex wife!'; My boyfriend hardly ever brings up the divorce situation because they have been legally separated for so long so he says it's as though they have already been divorced for a year and a half, so it's not so fresh. Also, he never says his ';wife,'; he refers to her as his ex wife already. If you think your man is ready to move on with a life with you, then congratulations and you are just going to have to wait it out and the insecurities. If he's not, maybe you should cut your ties now.
I am also in this situation, although he refers to her by name, rather than wife or ex wife. I have never met her and do not intend on doing so. I heard she's a dragon!
I do feel a little bit like, whoa, she was special in his life for so long, and to top it she is the mother of his child. It leaves me wondering, how much can I really mean to him? She will always have the 'label' of being his most significant relationship, and they are forever tied by the child. He says he could never ever ever go back to her, which reassures me. And I need to hear that!
It's a tough one, but I love him so much I just try to focus on the great relationship we have together.
She lost him, but now he's mine :) and I ain't letting go!
I understand your feeling maybe some of the things he says like ';my wife'; are just a slip of the tongue don't be too harsh on him. Try and focus on what you have got together and the crease of his previous marriage should hopefully sooner than later iron itself out. Both of you should look to the future not the past it's irrelevent.
I have never been married or divorced but once a relationship is null and void it's null and void don't worry.
Well, that is part of life, give it in about 10-15 years of marriage %26amp; your feelings will change. I was in the same boat, my GF was married before, her ex was abusive, never gave me any problems, I did carry a gun sometimes. I had never been married, I had to swallow the truth that she had ';lived %26amp; was married'; to someone before me. Cooked his food, washed his clothes,,, etc,,,he finally got out of the picture, sometimes I almost forget she was married before. Give it time, but if you can not deal with it %26amp; it haunts you,,,you need to move on,,,,
My hubby was married before and his ex is a real cow, she makes my life a living hell. I've been with him 5yrs and married 2 of them. He has 2 kids and she tells them that they can do what they like at our house cos I can't tell them off. I refuse to go near her house cos you'd never know if she'd come out to start or not I don't even answer the phone if it's her. But I love my husband and she's not worth worring about cos she's his past and i'm his future, so forget about your partners ex she wasn't the 1 for him or he'd be still with her but he's not he's with you!
Yes my husband was married before and i hate it. I hate his ex wife because she makes my life hell. I hate that he has three kids with her and not me and i hate that he has to give half of his money to child support. I hate that my life and my wanting kids and my wanting to buy a house has to be put on hold because of that witch of an ex wife of his. She is always taking him back to court for more money. She even hits on my husband in front of me. She is mean to me and says horrible things to me, she calls every five seconds and for dumb things to, like '; Johnny forgot a shoelace at your house last weekend can you drive two hours to my house to bring it back';. It is ridiculous. I hate her. But i love my husband and i wouldn't want to live my life with out him. All this stuff is just something i have to deal with if i want to be with a man that was married before and has kids with someone else. But it is all worth it.........most of the time. LOL.
My husband and I have both been married before. There are little twinges of jealousy, which I think is natural. But we both know that we are not in those marriages anymore and that our lives have moved on. Everyone makes bad decisions sometimes and everyone has a past. We know that we made the right decision this time and we are going to be together forever. He chose me this time and I am thankful for that and I know they are a thing of the past. Just remember that - they are apart for a reason and now he has chosen you.
You must understand that its very rare for love to stop instantly, there is very often a period where love turns to luv and the loss of that little bit can have dramatic effects on people. It quite common for people to still love past partners for years afterwards though not in a sexual sense but in a friendly sense.. The thing is you are with him now and so that love he had for her will fade while his love for you should build eventually you'll be his wife and he will refer to her has his ex or by her name.. So be strong and allow time for his emotional self to catch up with his physical self..
One of my best friends is involved with a man who is divorced with a child. She deals with it, but it's hard. She has to see the ex-wife every now and then and always gets jealous about how she's looking. She deals with it by putting it out of her mind most of the time. When she has to think about it, she does for a brief period of time and then puts it out of her mind again.
I know exactly what you mean, because my partner although he only just recently moved out, he still calls the house he lived in ';home'; and it is very uncomfortable.
Just take one day at a time, although I am aware that it is easier said than done!
I wish you all the luck!
My husband was married before me. I don't really care about his ex. If she was involved in our life then it'd probably cause some problems but she isn't so I don't have any problems. I don't talk about my past relationships and he doesn't talk about his.
It depends on your age. If you are under 35, then it's hard to accept. If you're over 35 and still struggling with it, you're the one with the issues, not him.
Go find someone who doesn't have a past marital partner. Really. You'll be living ';her'; life forever otherwise.
It is a sensitive time in the persons life ho is going through this. You must show maturity and pretty much let him get it out of his system. He is probably not ready for a serious relationship either. You could be the rebound girl.
just take it one day at a time, he is with you, it might be strange at times, eventually the past will fade into the past, enjoy each other and your new partner in love (-:
i had one of you, during my divorce.
and of course, i dropped her like a cold rock as soon as divorce was final.
get out of where you are. now.
Yes its hard sometimes whne she gets to talking about her past relationship with her husband
But thats part of it if we are going to be with someone that was married before.
Yes - My husbands had an ex and I hate her as he is always on about her. makes me feel as if I came in between them even though he had the option of not getting married to me.
nowadays, you can't find anyone who hasn't been married before than divorced. get used to it.
In the same situation and yes you are being too sensitive - just need to let it go. Just remember he chose to be with you now!
The gf I'm with now is still married. No big deal.
Well if it's the past then I have nothing to worry about. As long as I love him=3
Nope.
But I can imagine it would be very difficult.
My perspective may be different because I am separated and going through preparing for a divorce but, I have an interest in a person who is also going through a divorce. I don't have any problem with him mentioning his ex because she was a part of his life and part of what has made him the man that I know now. I figure in some way, pretty much every one has ex's and have come to realize that all that matters is where that person is now and if they are with me, I am satisfied to know that they chose me.Is there anyone out there who is dating a man/woman who's already been married before?
Yes, I am in a very similiar situation right now and it really does suck. The thing is, does he share children with his wife? If not, you can thank your lucky stars that when their divorce is final that if he is commited to you that it's ';so long ex wife!'; My boyfriend hardly ever brings up the divorce situation because they have been legally separated for so long so he says it's as though they have already been divorced for a year and a half, so it's not so fresh. Also, he never says his ';wife,'; he refers to her as his ex wife already. If you think your man is ready to move on with a life with you, then congratulations and you are just going to have to wait it out and the insecurities. If he's not, maybe you should cut your ties now.
I am also in this situation, although he refers to her by name, rather than wife or ex wife. I have never met her and do not intend on doing so. I heard she's a dragon!
I do feel a little bit like, whoa, she was special in his life for so long, and to top it she is the mother of his child. It leaves me wondering, how much can I really mean to him? She will always have the 'label' of being his most significant relationship, and they are forever tied by the child. He says he could never ever ever go back to her, which reassures me. And I need to hear that!
It's a tough one, but I love him so much I just try to focus on the great relationship we have together.
She lost him, but now he's mine :) and I ain't letting go!
I understand your feeling maybe some of the things he says like ';my wife'; are just a slip of the tongue don't be too harsh on him. Try and focus on what you have got together and the crease of his previous marriage should hopefully sooner than later iron itself out. Both of you should look to the future not the past it's irrelevent.
I have never been married or divorced but once a relationship is null and void it's null and void don't worry.
Well, that is part of life, give it in about 10-15 years of marriage %26amp; your feelings will change. I was in the same boat, my GF was married before, her ex was abusive, never gave me any problems, I did carry a gun sometimes. I had never been married, I had to swallow the truth that she had ';lived %26amp; was married'; to someone before me. Cooked his food, washed his clothes,,, etc,,,he finally got out of the picture, sometimes I almost forget she was married before. Give it time, but if you can not deal with it %26amp; it haunts you,,,you need to move on,,,,
My hubby was married before and his ex is a real cow, she makes my life a living hell. I've been with him 5yrs and married 2 of them. He has 2 kids and she tells them that they can do what they like at our house cos I can't tell them off. I refuse to go near her house cos you'd never know if she'd come out to start or not I don't even answer the phone if it's her. But I love my husband and she's not worth worring about cos she's his past and i'm his future, so forget about your partners ex she wasn't the 1 for him or he'd be still with her but he's not he's with you!
Yes my husband was married before and i hate it. I hate his ex wife because she makes my life hell. I hate that he has three kids with her and not me and i hate that he has to give half of his money to child support. I hate that my life and my wanting kids and my wanting to buy a house has to be put on hold because of that witch of an ex wife of his. She is always taking him back to court for more money. She even hits on my husband in front of me. She is mean to me and says horrible things to me, she calls every five seconds and for dumb things to, like '; Johnny forgot a shoelace at your house last weekend can you drive two hours to my house to bring it back';. It is ridiculous. I hate her. But i love my husband and i wouldn't want to live my life with out him. All this stuff is just something i have to deal with if i want to be with a man that was married before and has kids with someone else. But it is all worth it.........most of the time. LOL.
My husband and I have both been married before. There are little twinges of jealousy, which I think is natural. But we both know that we are not in those marriages anymore and that our lives have moved on. Everyone makes bad decisions sometimes and everyone has a past. We know that we made the right decision this time and we are going to be together forever. He chose me this time and I am thankful for that and I know they are a thing of the past. Just remember that - they are apart for a reason and now he has chosen you.
You must understand that its very rare for love to stop instantly, there is very often a period where love turns to luv and the loss of that little bit can have dramatic effects on people. It quite common for people to still love past partners for years afterwards though not in a sexual sense but in a friendly sense.. The thing is you are with him now and so that love he had for her will fade while his love for you should build eventually you'll be his wife and he will refer to her has his ex or by her name.. So be strong and allow time for his emotional self to catch up with his physical self..
One of my best friends is involved with a man who is divorced with a child. She deals with it, but it's hard. She has to see the ex-wife every now and then and always gets jealous about how she's looking. She deals with it by putting it out of her mind most of the time. When she has to think about it, she does for a brief period of time and then puts it out of her mind again.
I know exactly what you mean, because my partner although he only just recently moved out, he still calls the house he lived in ';home'; and it is very uncomfortable.
Just take one day at a time, although I am aware that it is easier said than done!
I wish you all the luck!
My husband was married before me. I don't really care about his ex. If she was involved in our life then it'd probably cause some problems but she isn't so I don't have any problems. I don't talk about my past relationships and he doesn't talk about his.
It depends on your age. If you are under 35, then it's hard to accept. If you're over 35 and still struggling with it, you're the one with the issues, not him.
Go find someone who doesn't have a past marital partner. Really. You'll be living ';her'; life forever otherwise.
It is a sensitive time in the persons life ho is going through this. You must show maturity and pretty much let him get it out of his system. He is probably not ready for a serious relationship either. You could be the rebound girl.
just take it one day at a time, he is with you, it might be strange at times, eventually the past will fade into the past, enjoy each other and your new partner in love (-:
i had one of you, during my divorce.
and of course, i dropped her like a cold rock as soon as divorce was final.
get out of where you are. now.
Yes its hard sometimes whne she gets to talking about her past relationship with her husband
But thats part of it if we are going to be with someone that was married before.
Yes - My husbands had an ex and I hate her as he is always on about her. makes me feel as if I came in between them even though he had the option of not getting married to me.
nowadays, you can't find anyone who hasn't been married before than divorced. get used to it.
In the same situation and yes you are being too sensitive - just need to let it go. Just remember he chose to be with you now!
The gf I'm with now is still married. No big deal.
Well if it's the past then I have nothing to worry about. As long as I love him=3
Nope.
But I can imagine it would be very difficult.
How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend?
i am kinda halfway dating this girl. she has a boyfriend, she tells me that she loves me and all of this and that.
but she wont break up with her boyfriend because she doesn't want to hurt him..
how can i convince her to?How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend?
Don't halfway date her. Tell her as long as she is dating someone else, you won't date her. It's taking a risk, but it'll go one of two ways. She'll either try to keep him and date you too, in which case you'll lose respect for her because if she'll do that to her current boyfriend, she'd do it to you too. Or, she'll miss you and break up with the other guy to be with you.
but she wont break up with her boyfriend because she doesn't want to hurt him..
how can i convince her to?How to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend?
Don't halfway date her. Tell her as long as she is dating someone else, you won't date her. It's taking a risk, but it'll go one of two ways. She'll either try to keep him and date you too, in which case you'll lose respect for her because if she'll do that to her current boyfriend, she'd do it to you too. Or, she'll miss you and break up with the other guy to be with you.
What would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
Hey,
My ex and i split up two weeks back. We cant avoid each other due to attending the same sports club 4-5 times a week.
However, i am taking two weeks off training (quoting illness and holiday as my reasons) to sort myself out. I plan to just concentrate on myself, bring back the guy i used to be, let go of ';us'; and get to the stage where i can just relax around her and have fun like we used to......as friends.
In two weeks me and a group of friends are going over the Dublin to celebrate my 21st birthday- my ex girlfriend is meant to be coming too as she is a big part of my friendship group. We are meant to be meeting for a drink before hand too, to clear the air.
My question to you guys is how to act in two weeks to be most attractive to my ex? MY gut instincts tell me:
- do not talk about the past
- just have fun banter with her like i used, and flirt a little but not over powering
- continue to give her alot of space
- just relax around her
Any suggestions would really really help guys, i really like this girl and although i know it will take a lot of time, patience and control to get a relationship back, i know it is what i really want.
Thanks
xWhat would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
You are completely right, all of the bullet points you have listed are completely the right way to go about it...take time and patience and it will pay off...
Good luck to you my dear, really wish my ex boyfriend would think like this.... :)What would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
Yes you got it right that you have to be patient that means you are on the right track.I have given these tips to many people and it worked well and i see it will be same for you as well.Just go through them:
How you get back together is going to depend a lot on how you broke up.
If you were the one to call it off, then you are going to have to be very careful about the way you re-approach her. She was most likely very hurt after your relationship ended, so asking her to put herself in that position again is going to be difficult. A girl is going to translate your actions as “I thought I could do better, turns out I can’t, so I guess you’ll do”. That’s not going to work a lot of the time.
If you were the one that called it off, then getting things going again is going to involve some pride swallowing on your part. You need to admit that you were wrong to call it off in the first place. A good way of doing this is to say something along the lines of “You know, I really miss the (insert something she likes here) we used to do.” Depending on her response you have your opening for a new ‘first’ date.
On the other hand, if she was the one that called things off you need to approach things differently. There was something about you, or about the situation, that didn’t make her happy. All you need to do is figure out what that was and change it, and you are half way to winning her back. From there you need her to become aware of the changed situation, re-establish contact, show her how things will be different and then convince her that getting back together is the best thing for both of you.
Is there something that she loves about you? like maybe your smile (i love to see my guy smile) or her favorite shirt of yours? think about those things. Your suggestions are great
That sounds so caring, you must be a nice guy. My partner and I broke up for a month after ten years together. I couldnt stand being apart and neither could he. He came round one night and we just watched a film had a drink together and things happened naturally. We laughed and cuddled up and realised how much we still care and love each other. It was hard to move on, I kept asking if he'd slept with anyone else in those weeks and it started to come between us. I just think whatever happened he came back to me so noone else obviously makes him feel the same. I kept dwelling on the problems we had in the past which doesnt help. Anyway you are right not to talk about the past, my partner says the future is most important and he wants us to get married. If it is meant to be it will be so yes, just relax and things will happen if it is what you both want. Good luck.
My ex and i split up two weeks back. We cant avoid each other due to attending the same sports club 4-5 times a week.
However, i am taking two weeks off training (quoting illness and holiday as my reasons) to sort myself out. I plan to just concentrate on myself, bring back the guy i used to be, let go of ';us'; and get to the stage where i can just relax around her and have fun like we used to......as friends.
In two weeks me and a group of friends are going over the Dublin to celebrate my 21st birthday- my ex girlfriend is meant to be coming too as she is a big part of my friendship group. We are meant to be meeting for a drink before hand too, to clear the air.
My question to you guys is how to act in two weeks to be most attractive to my ex? MY gut instincts tell me:
- do not talk about the past
- just have fun banter with her like i used, and flirt a little but not over powering
- continue to give her alot of space
- just relax around her
Any suggestions would really really help guys, i really like this girl and although i know it will take a lot of time, patience and control to get a relationship back, i know it is what i really want.
Thanks
xWhat would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
You are completely right, all of the bullet points you have listed are completely the right way to go about it...take time and patience and it will pay off...
Good luck to you my dear, really wish my ex boyfriend would think like this.... :)What would attract you to your ex boyfriend girls?
Yes you got it right that you have to be patient that means you are on the right track.I have given these tips to many people and it worked well and i see it will be same for you as well.Just go through them:
How you get back together is going to depend a lot on how you broke up.
If you were the one to call it off, then you are going to have to be very careful about the way you re-approach her. She was most likely very hurt after your relationship ended, so asking her to put herself in that position again is going to be difficult. A girl is going to translate your actions as “I thought I could do better, turns out I can’t, so I guess you’ll do”. That’s not going to work a lot of the time.
If you were the one that called it off, then getting things going again is going to involve some pride swallowing on your part. You need to admit that you were wrong to call it off in the first place. A good way of doing this is to say something along the lines of “You know, I really miss the (insert something she likes here) we used to do.” Depending on her response you have your opening for a new ‘first’ date.
On the other hand, if she was the one that called things off you need to approach things differently. There was something about you, or about the situation, that didn’t make her happy. All you need to do is figure out what that was and change it, and you are half way to winning her back. From there you need her to become aware of the changed situation, re-establish contact, show her how things will be different and then convince her that getting back together is the best thing for both of you.
Is there something that she loves about you? like maybe your smile (i love to see my guy smile) or her favorite shirt of yours? think about those things. Your suggestions are great
That sounds so caring, you must be a nice guy. My partner and I broke up for a month after ten years together. I couldnt stand being apart and neither could he. He came round one night and we just watched a film had a drink together and things happened naturally. We laughed and cuddled up and realised how much we still care and love each other. It was hard to move on, I kept asking if he'd slept with anyone else in those weeks and it started to come between us. I just think whatever happened he came back to me so noone else obviously makes him feel the same. I kept dwelling on the problems we had in the past which doesnt help. Anyway you are right not to talk about the past, my partner says the future is most important and he wants us to get married. If it is meant to be it will be so yes, just relax and things will happen if it is what you both want. Good luck.
Im a girl dressing my boyfriend as a girl what should i put him in?
he lost a bet and now i get to dress him. What should i put him in and what should i do with him. how can i get him to look like a real girl. Like what would get him to have curves butt breasts etcIm a girl dressing my boyfriend as a girl what should i put him in?
ok dress him up as french maid
makeup lipstick eyeshadow eyeliner paint his nails heels fishnet stockings blonde wig
and don麓t the frilly lingerie
he will look really girly %26amp; cute :-)
haha have funIm a girl dressing my boyfriend as a girl what should i put him in?
nightie
gloves
pink dressing gown
do his hair
put him in a dance dress then give him a bra but if that is too weird give him some ballons or tissues to put on his chest then give him some stick on earings then a necklace then some makeup i would suggest eyeshadow too then if he has long sort of hair curl it or just give him a girly hat give him some heals too then a purse then some more jewelry
Thats nice....
I would wear(I'm a crossdresser):
a GOOD wig
makeup, you know how to do make up, but just casual make up
Bra, stuff it with toilet paper
Tank top, if he is hairy, make him shave his chest and armpits
maybe a girly jacket
Skirt, about 3 inches above the knee
Pantyhose, if he has pale legs
Tight panties(make him tuck his privates, too)
Your shoes, but if his feet are bigger, let him wear his own
You should make him:
Go shopping with you,
take picture
then put the pictures up
HAVE FUN!
Put him in / in him:
wig
dress
uggs/stelletos
lipstick
blush
eyeshadow
eyeliner
lipgloss
toner
put all of your bras on him and stuff them with socks
put a sweater in his boxers
but on some fishnets
and buy some clip on earrings
get the girliest purse you have and make him carry that. and walk around with tampons!! haha
good luckk!!
bright pink things
rings
neckles
eyeliner
lipstick
uggs
or high heels
bra
a pink wig?
thongs
tights
a tight bra full of stuffed tissue.....
pain his nails!
make up
handbag
pefume on him
make him shave!!!!!!
if he has long hair str8en it
good luck
;]
Ahahaha whatever 褔ou do,
Put on clothes that he hates,
Or else he might turn trann褔,
Which wont be good for 褔ou,
No offence to people who dress like women who arent women,
Seriousl褔 :]
A dress which shows alot of flesh?
Lol :D
blue jeans, flannel shirt, western boots.
cowgirl look....HA.
That must have been some bet.... I have 2 words... Cheerleading Uniform. There, I said it :)
stuffed bra. stuffed underwear (give him BROAD hips like a real classy broad would have)
A little black dress, of course!!!
wow... good luck with that
put him in u send me pics
ok dress him up as french maid
makeup lipstick eyeshadow eyeliner paint his nails heels fishnet stockings blonde wig
and don麓t the frilly lingerie
he will look really girly %26amp; cute :-)
haha have funIm a girl dressing my boyfriend as a girl what should i put him in?
nightie
gloves
pink dressing gown
do his hair
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put him in a dance dress then give him a bra but if that is too weird give him some ballons or tissues to put on his chest then give him some stick on earings then a necklace then some makeup i would suggest eyeshadow too then if he has long sort of hair curl it or just give him a girly hat give him some heals too then a purse then some more jewelry
Thats nice....
I would wear(I'm a crossdresser):
a GOOD wig
makeup, you know how to do make up, but just casual make up
Bra, stuff it with toilet paper
Tank top, if he is hairy, make him shave his chest and armpits
maybe a girly jacket
Skirt, about 3 inches above the knee
Pantyhose, if he has pale legs
Tight panties(make him tuck his privates, too)
Your shoes, but if his feet are bigger, let him wear his own
You should make him:
Go shopping with you,
take picture
then put the pictures up
HAVE FUN!
Put him in / in him:
wig
dress
uggs/stelletos
lipstick
blush
eyeshadow
eyeliner
lipgloss
toner
put all of your bras on him and stuff them with socks
put a sweater in his boxers
but on some fishnets
and buy some clip on earrings
get the girliest purse you have and make him carry that. and walk around with tampons!! haha
good luckk!!
bright pink things
rings
neckles
eyeliner
lipstick
uggs
or high heels
bra
a pink wig?
thongs
tights
a tight bra full of stuffed tissue.....
pain his nails!
make up
handbag
pefume on him
make him shave!!!!!!
if he has long hair str8en it
good luck
;]
Ahahaha whatever 褔ou do,
Put on clothes that he hates,
Or else he might turn trann褔,
Which wont be good for 褔ou,
No offence to people who dress like women who arent women,
Seriousl褔 :]
A dress which shows alot of flesh?
Lol :D
blue jeans, flannel shirt, western boots.
cowgirl look....HA.
That must have been some bet.... I have 2 words... Cheerleading Uniform. There, I said it :)
stuffed bra. stuffed underwear (give him BROAD hips like a real classy broad would have)
A little black dress, of course!!!
wow... good luck with that
put him in u send me pics
Insecurity problems with boyfriend? GIRLS help only!?
is it dumb how i get mad if they have girls on t.v/movies or whatever %26amp; my boyfriend just so happens to see them %26amp; i get a bit insecure about it? i dont know how to stop getting mad at these stupid little things. What would u do? or how do u react?Insecurity problems with boyfriend? GIRLS help only!?
I was having the same problem, somewhat. Being insecure about things, anyway. Basically, you have to learn to let it go. Your boyfriend is gonna see other girls, in public and on tv, and theres nothing you can do about it. However, you do know that he chose YOU out of all these girls hes seen and that hes with YOU. You have to learn to let go of the fear of the end of the relationship or his impending infidelity, because it will either happen or it wont, and the more psycho crazy you act about it, the more likely it is to happen. Just relax and enjoy every minute you have next to him. :-) Insecurity problems with boyfriend? GIRLS help only!?
I wouldn't dream of feeling jealous because my boyfriend wouldn't dream of doing anything to make me feel that way. He's from Brazil so I remember he once said, ';did you know a lot of the supermodels in the world are from Rio Grande de Sol?'; ... but that's just because he's a proud Brazilian :D
The point is, he tells me everyday that I'm his princess and that I'm beautiful so getting jealous over another girl would be completely ridiculous. If you feel as insecure as you say you are, maybe you need to find a guy that's more attentive to you.
Seems to me this is a body image issue. Girls on tv/movies tend to be skinny, perfect looking. So, maybe you're afraid he's going to think they are more attractive than you? Unfortunately, this is only going to get worse for you if you don't work on this now. It might progress to him looking at any girl on the street. This isn't about him looking it's about you and your self-esteem. How do you work on your self-esteem? Got me there--I'm still doing it.
well i think its not that your mad its just that your jealous?!?! DOY?!?!? AND... i think its normal causei feel the same way with my boyfriend when he does that and besides its not like hes gonna dum you for the girl in the movies or something and if he was attracted too someone else hey hes still with you right....right !?!?! well if you guys start drifting apart thats what you need to worry about and thats where you take control. GOOD LUCK !?!?!?
it isnt dumb!!
i feel the same way. you're just showing him that you care and you dont want anyone else to have him. it's pure jealousy. i get the same exact way. sometimes, i make my bf look away wen there is a gurl on the tv lol and he does the same for me. remind urself about how much he loves you.
What's meant to be will ALWAYS find a way.
i feel the exact same way sometimes. and im sitting there like this is ridiculous. i just remind myself of how much he loves me and yeah sure he may think there attractive, but he doesn't feel the way about them nor will he ever that he does about me.
i mean we think brad pitt and ryan gosling are gorgeous too right ? lol
JUST THINK I'M GLAD HE LOVES ME, NOT THEM.
my man is just like that but i tell myself its only on tv well he ever see them in real life really thats no
I was having the same problem, somewhat. Being insecure about things, anyway. Basically, you have to learn to let it go. Your boyfriend is gonna see other girls, in public and on tv, and theres nothing you can do about it. However, you do know that he chose YOU out of all these girls hes seen and that hes with YOU. You have to learn to let go of the fear of the end of the relationship or his impending infidelity, because it will either happen or it wont, and the more psycho crazy you act about it, the more likely it is to happen. Just relax and enjoy every minute you have next to him. :-) Insecurity problems with boyfriend? GIRLS help only!?
I wouldn't dream of feeling jealous because my boyfriend wouldn't dream of doing anything to make me feel that way. He's from Brazil so I remember he once said, ';did you know a lot of the supermodels in the world are from Rio Grande de Sol?'; ... but that's just because he's a proud Brazilian :D
The point is, he tells me everyday that I'm his princess and that I'm beautiful so getting jealous over another girl would be completely ridiculous. If you feel as insecure as you say you are, maybe you need to find a guy that's more attentive to you.
Seems to me this is a body image issue. Girls on tv/movies tend to be skinny, perfect looking. So, maybe you're afraid he's going to think they are more attractive than you? Unfortunately, this is only going to get worse for you if you don't work on this now. It might progress to him looking at any girl on the street. This isn't about him looking it's about you and your self-esteem. How do you work on your self-esteem? Got me there--I'm still doing it.
well i think its not that your mad its just that your jealous?!?! DOY?!?!? AND... i think its normal causei feel the same way with my boyfriend when he does that and besides its not like hes gonna dum you for the girl in the movies or something and if he was attracted too someone else hey hes still with you right....right !?!?! well if you guys start drifting apart thats what you need to worry about and thats where you take control. GOOD LUCK !?!?!?
it isnt dumb!!
i feel the same way. you're just showing him that you care and you dont want anyone else to have him. it's pure jealousy. i get the same exact way. sometimes, i make my bf look away wen there is a gurl on the tv lol and he does the same for me. remind urself about how much he loves you.
What's meant to be will ALWAYS find a way.
i feel the exact same way sometimes. and im sitting there like this is ridiculous. i just remind myself of how much he loves me and yeah sure he may think there attractive, but he doesn't feel the way about them nor will he ever that he does about me.
i mean we think brad pitt and ryan gosling are gorgeous too right ? lol
JUST THINK I'M GLAD HE LOVES ME, NOT THEM.
my man is just like that but i tell myself its only on tv well he ever see them in real life really thats no
How do you know you love someone enough to marry them?
I can't imagine myself finding someone where I'm just so absolutely crazy about them that I want to devote the rest of my life to them. Is one supposed to always feel love just pouring from there body? Or does one just eventually feel stable and ';numb'; but they just assume the love is still there? If a person had been with his/her girl/boyfriend for many many years and was afraid if they were to get married he/she would regret it because they wouldn't love their significant other enough or something. Is that normal or is that a sign that maybe that person hasn't found the one? What are those determining factors or potential martial love?How do you know you love someone enough to marry them?
I think you love someone enough to marry them, when you love them enough that you are ready to stop looking for someone better.How do you know you love someone enough to marry them?
That's why you spend a great deal of time with and go through the fights, trials, and good times. The crazy love you feel when you've been with them a short time becomes less crazy with time. Your love for them deepens and matures. When you've reached that point and you think your relationship and endure the test of time then you can get married.
i guess you just realize you could never be without the person, because if that person were gone, you would feel lost and not your whole self.
i dated my husband for 7 years before marriage. i never really felt uncontrollable jump on him lust, i just felt that he was hot stuff, and he was(is)everything i was looking for. it took 7 years to realize this, and if we would have gotten married earlier, it would have been a disaster because we were too young and not sure of what we both wanted.
i know i will be with him til death.
that is a good feeling.
You'll know when you don't need to ask on yahoo answers hun. I don't know if it's normal or not, but it does sound like nervousness or a lack of confidence in yourself to truly love someone else. I mean do you not think you're good enough for that person?
Basically you'll know when you truly find someone who you want to be with forever. Good luck hun.
When you know, you know. Plenty of people will probably tell you the same thing but it's true.
For me, I know that I love my soon-to-be husband. It's not always a hot burning passionate love but it's a constant thing. There are days when I'd really like to throttle him but I still love him to bits.
Oh and a really strong friendship helps. If you only have that hot passionate love then what will happen when that eventually dies down?
Well you love someone when you have a way of calming each other when mad or upset...or making each other laugh and being your self even if its dorky...just being able to share things and be open and be comfortable...you need commitment and be able to adapt...when your married..you keep each other up and down....you support one another...think of your love as someone to keep you strong to get through this world and defeating all the challenges we're given
The love grows. At least mine does. Getting married next month and I love him more now than ever. I can't imagine being without him and can't imagine ever being with someone else. Being married is only the icing on the cake, I would be with him forever without it.
I couldn't imagine NOT being with my fiance forever. I love him as much as I love myself, and I trust him, respect him, and love to spend my time with him. When you meet someone who compliments you and that makes your life better, you know it's good.
I Believe It's When You Can't Bear To Be Apart From Them.
I Can't Imagine My Life Without My Fiance, I Seriously Don't Think I'm Strong Enough Without Him.
When You Know You Love, Trust %26amp; Respect Them, You'll Know For Sure If You Want Them To Be In Your Life Forever.
You just know the feeling. It comes fro the heart. It also says do you want to grow old with me? What do we like? What do we dis-like? Do i see myself with person the rest of my life. Is this person good for me and why? love love %26amp; love Good luck!
Being in love with someone is not always going to be this crazy passionate OMG feeling. It has its ups and downs ..... but through it all u know thats where u rather be. I believe that u just know when u found that person .... its not a question in ur mind.
You will know. If you have to ask the question or have any doubts what so ever your not ready.
when you find the right one you will know beond doubt.
it shouldn't be something you think about; it's a feeling, a feeling that you have no doubts about-a feeling even more sure than there is air. (= lol.
Its not something you can think about it just happens. Its not a thought, its a feeling.
you can always get a divorce if things dont work out. which hopefully they will :) i think u will feel it when the time is ready .. good luck
It would come NATURALLY....and then suddenly you'll feel... ';She's the ONE.'; Literally anyways you just haven't met the ONE yet
When you meet your childhood or favourite crush and do not want to cheat on them, then you love your spouse and ready to get married
trust me when the time comes you'll know
(my sister was really worried abot the same thing last month and had no bouyfriend and this month she is getting engaged)
The way you truely know is... Ask yourself if you feel comfortable giving them half of everything?
When you can't imagine spending your life apart from them :)
When you find them you won't have to be asking this question.
if u have doubt i think u shouldnt..u gotta love the person without question and i think u will know..im only 18 and not gonna get married for a while so thats just what i think
if you have to ask on the internet, then i guess it might not be real, just think about that
when you love yourself first and stop asking that question you know you are ready... follow your heart...
when u feelll iti n ur heart, but u r heart myst be open for love.
trust me honey when ur in love you know it you dont have to question it!!!
just listen to your heart
u know when u dont have to ask ppl
idk i think if u fell it and u really like him or her the i guess thats true love
when I was growing up I had this Idea in my head of what love was and I got it from old movies. I thought that it was going to be intense and beautiful and hit me like a rock! and I always held my standard to this level...and I was single alot because of it! then I had a boyfriend who I had dated for 3 years and had broken up with but still cared about. one day he decided that we should get married. he proposed 3 times and I always said no I'm waiting for ';THE ONE'; and I will know him when I see him! but after a while I began to question why I was still such good friends with my ex-boyfriend? and why he wanted me to move to Charleston and be his little Navy wife? maby what I was holding out for didnt' exist I had never seen it? my parents didn't have that! aren't movies fake anyway? so I started to consider his offers. then it hit me! one day I was talking to my brothers best friend who I had known since elementary school and It hit me...hey this could work. our romance sprang up out of nothing overnight! one day he came to a party at my house and stayed to take care of my drunk butt and never went home! that was 2 years ago and I am happy to say we just got married! and he is everything I had always hoped for (but never saw) I joke that I knew he was the one because I could live with him and I still liked him. but really just looking at him makes me smile. and the way that he makes me feel is so deep and true that I dont hesitate putting my heart and soul in his hands. there was nothing to consider it was obvious to us and to everyone around us! we don't even want me time. I plan my whole day around when I can see him and he will drive me to work for that extra 15 minutes. the signs you should be looking for when considering marraige potential are TRUST, UNDERSTANDING and A DESIRE TO PLEASE ONE ANOTHER! without these everything will be hard work. it can be done but it just isn't the same. My husband is truley a gift from God and I honestly for the first time in my life can say that I am luckier to have him than he is to have me! and that is something that stability and numbness can't even compare to.
When you don't have to ask this question.
Love is something you know better than yourself (K. Hunter quote). It can't be doubted. My mister and I have been together 2 and a half years, and we're still as crazy about each other as when we first realized we wanted more than just friendship.
Love, in the beginning, is tingly, magical, and exciting because it is no new and exciting, touching everything in your life. Then it gives way to an intimacy (not physical) that you wouldn't trade for all the butterflies in the world (though they still make their appearance now and again).
If you ever fear you don't love someone enough, you don't love them at all. I have no doubt that my mister will live happily and lovingly all the days of our shared life, because we aren't basing our relationship on mere feelings, but friendship, respect, trust, and communication.wavy hair wavy hair
I think you love someone enough to marry them, when you love them enough that you are ready to stop looking for someone better.How do you know you love someone enough to marry them?
That's why you spend a great deal of time with and go through the fights, trials, and good times. The crazy love you feel when you've been with them a short time becomes less crazy with time. Your love for them deepens and matures. When you've reached that point and you think your relationship and endure the test of time then you can get married.
i guess you just realize you could never be without the person, because if that person were gone, you would feel lost and not your whole self.
i dated my husband for 7 years before marriage. i never really felt uncontrollable jump on him lust, i just felt that he was hot stuff, and he was(is)everything i was looking for. it took 7 years to realize this, and if we would have gotten married earlier, it would have been a disaster because we were too young and not sure of what we both wanted.
i know i will be with him til death.
that is a good feeling.
You'll know when you don't need to ask on yahoo answers hun. I don't know if it's normal or not, but it does sound like nervousness or a lack of confidence in yourself to truly love someone else. I mean do you not think you're good enough for that person?
Basically you'll know when you truly find someone who you want to be with forever. Good luck hun.
When you know, you know. Plenty of people will probably tell you the same thing but it's true.
For me, I know that I love my soon-to-be husband. It's not always a hot burning passionate love but it's a constant thing. There are days when I'd really like to throttle him but I still love him to bits.
Oh and a really strong friendship helps. If you only have that hot passionate love then what will happen when that eventually dies down?
Well you love someone when you have a way of calming each other when mad or upset...or making each other laugh and being your self even if its dorky...just being able to share things and be open and be comfortable...you need commitment and be able to adapt...when your married..you keep each other up and down....you support one another...think of your love as someone to keep you strong to get through this world and defeating all the challenges we're given
The love grows. At least mine does. Getting married next month and I love him more now than ever. I can't imagine being without him and can't imagine ever being with someone else. Being married is only the icing on the cake, I would be with him forever without it.
I couldn't imagine NOT being with my fiance forever. I love him as much as I love myself, and I trust him, respect him, and love to spend my time with him. When you meet someone who compliments you and that makes your life better, you know it's good.
I Believe It's When You Can't Bear To Be Apart From Them.
I Can't Imagine My Life Without My Fiance, I Seriously Don't Think I'm Strong Enough Without Him.
When You Know You Love, Trust %26amp; Respect Them, You'll Know For Sure If You Want Them To Be In Your Life Forever.
You just know the feeling. It comes fro the heart. It also says do you want to grow old with me? What do we like? What do we dis-like? Do i see myself with person the rest of my life. Is this person good for me and why? love love %26amp; love Good luck!
Being in love with someone is not always going to be this crazy passionate OMG feeling. It has its ups and downs ..... but through it all u know thats where u rather be. I believe that u just know when u found that person .... its not a question in ur mind.
You will know. If you have to ask the question or have any doubts what so ever your not ready.
when you find the right one you will know beond doubt.
it shouldn't be something you think about; it's a feeling, a feeling that you have no doubts about-a feeling even more sure than there is air. (= lol.
Its not something you can think about it just happens. Its not a thought, its a feeling.
you can always get a divorce if things dont work out. which hopefully they will :) i think u will feel it when the time is ready .. good luck
It would come NATURALLY....and then suddenly you'll feel... ';She's the ONE.'; Literally anyways you just haven't met the ONE yet
When you meet your childhood or favourite crush and do not want to cheat on them, then you love your spouse and ready to get married
trust me when the time comes you'll know
(my sister was really worried abot the same thing last month and had no bouyfriend and this month she is getting engaged)
The way you truely know is... Ask yourself if you feel comfortable giving them half of everything?
When you can't imagine spending your life apart from them :)
When you find them you won't have to be asking this question.
if u have doubt i think u shouldnt..u gotta love the person without question and i think u will know..im only 18 and not gonna get married for a while so thats just what i think
if you have to ask on the internet, then i guess it might not be real, just think about that
when you love yourself first and stop asking that question you know you are ready... follow your heart...
when u feelll iti n ur heart, but u r heart myst be open for love.
trust me honey when ur in love you know it you dont have to question it!!!
just listen to your heart
u know when u dont have to ask ppl
idk i think if u fell it and u really like him or her the i guess thats true love
when I was growing up I had this Idea in my head of what love was and I got it from old movies. I thought that it was going to be intense and beautiful and hit me like a rock! and I always held my standard to this level...and I was single alot because of it! then I had a boyfriend who I had dated for 3 years and had broken up with but still cared about. one day he decided that we should get married. he proposed 3 times and I always said no I'm waiting for ';THE ONE'; and I will know him when I see him! but after a while I began to question why I was still such good friends with my ex-boyfriend? and why he wanted me to move to Charleston and be his little Navy wife? maby what I was holding out for didnt' exist I had never seen it? my parents didn't have that! aren't movies fake anyway? so I started to consider his offers. then it hit me! one day I was talking to my brothers best friend who I had known since elementary school and It hit me...hey this could work. our romance sprang up out of nothing overnight! one day he came to a party at my house and stayed to take care of my drunk butt and never went home! that was 2 years ago and I am happy to say we just got married! and he is everything I had always hoped for (but never saw) I joke that I knew he was the one because I could live with him and I still liked him. but really just looking at him makes me smile. and the way that he makes me feel is so deep and true that I dont hesitate putting my heart and soul in his hands. there was nothing to consider it was obvious to us and to everyone around us! we don't even want me time. I plan my whole day around when I can see him and he will drive me to work for that extra 15 minutes. the signs you should be looking for when considering marraige potential are TRUST, UNDERSTANDING and A DESIRE TO PLEASE ONE ANOTHER! without these everything will be hard work. it can be done but it just isn't the same. My husband is truley a gift from God and I honestly for the first time in my life can say that I am luckier to have him than he is to have me! and that is something that stability and numbness can't even compare to.
When you don't have to ask this question.
Love is something you know better than yourself (K. Hunter quote). It can't be doubted. My mister and I have been together 2 and a half years, and we're still as crazy about each other as when we first realized we wanted more than just friendship.
Love, in the beginning, is tingly, magical, and exciting because it is no new and exciting, touching everything in your life. Then it gives way to an intimacy (not physical) that you wouldn't trade for all the butterflies in the world (though they still make their appearance now and again).
If you ever fear you don't love someone enough, you don't love them at all. I have no doubt that my mister will live happily and lovingly all the days of our shared life, because we aren't basing our relationship on mere feelings, but friendship, respect, trust, and communication.
How can i turn my guy friend into my boyfriend with being weird?
I have been friends with this guy for about 6 months now or 5...and i just realized i have a crush on him. He is friends with his ex girl friend still from last year (he dumped her) and they still hang out on the weekends...anyways, we talk on the phone and text sometimes...and when he was drunk one night he said i was beautiful. BUT when my friends asked if he would ever go out with me, he said, she is my friend... Me and him always laugh together about stupid stuff...and he talks to his ex seriously. How can i get this relationship to a boyfriend/girl friend type of thing?How can i turn my guy friend into my boyfriend with being weird?
sometime when you two guys are alone and there's no one else around to freak him out, just ask if he's ever considered you as more than a friend. Be prepared in case he tells you no. Regardless of what his answer is, just then reply simply that you have thought about it and then NEVER EVER bring it up again. He'll have enough of a hint that you're receptive to the idea and if he actually has any feelings for you, he'll act on it. FYI, any drunk guy will tell you you're beautiful, it doesn't always mean anything.
sometime when you two guys are alone and there's no one else around to freak him out, just ask if he's ever considered you as more than a friend. Be prepared in case he tells you no. Regardless of what his answer is, just then reply simply that you have thought about it and then NEVER EVER bring it up again. He'll have enough of a hint that you're receptive to the idea and if he actually has any feelings for you, he'll act on it. FYI, any drunk guy will tell you you're beautiful, it doesn't always mean anything.
Doe's My ex boyfriend's new girlfriend sound pregnat???
okay my ex boyfriend girl friend been wrting him on myspace saying this i might possibly miss you too;)
tonight we are going to this fish %26amp; chips van that is around the corner for dinner....they serve it out of a trailer like thing and i have to say neptunes has nothin on their food.
this place is open every wednesday and friday and the owners are friends of theirs, and although my gpa is a health food freak i make him go! wish you and the rest of california could taste it and no one would ever go back to neptunes! haha jealous yet?? ill bring you home some!
and last week she wrote this i am craving biscuits %26amp; gravy and some blueberry pancakes %26amp; some eggs so how about you get on that and ill come over and eat :) hahaha
do u think she's pregnat the last time they were together was around early june...my ex did me sooo wrong all that i had to put up with for seven years then he just leaves me for her and now i think that B#@$h is pregnat it hurts so bad and he won't leave me alone.Doe's My ex boyfriend's new girlfriend sound pregnat???
I think you sound like a stalkerDoe's My ex boyfriend's new girlfriend sound pregnat???
It's time to get over your ex and move on with your life. Just because she was craving that doesn't mean she's pregnant. My fiancee craves a lot of things and he sure as hell isn't pregnant..Worry about yourself and finding a new b/f obviously it wasn't meant to be between you two and you need to realize that.
I dont think shes pregnant...what i do think though is that your ex is a sleeze. Him not leaving you alone is great for him but it sucks for you. He's not allowing you to get over him. Uhave to fight back and not contact him. Delete from everything, eventually your memory. Good luck :)
leave your ex boyfriend alone!!! you have no business.he moved on just grow up and move on also!!! hold on i just read your other questions and you said the reason you both broke up was because he moved? try to keep your story's correct!!!
It just sounds like she wants breakfast... I mean if it was like watermelon and pickles she was craving maybe but all those things go together... Maybe she was watching an IHOP commercial?
Maybe you should stop lurking on myspace and go back to school. Brushing up on your English skills will be much better for you than stalking some .
He's your ex for a reason. Leave him alone, quit creating drama in your own head.
I think you need to get over your ex-boyfriend.
you sound jealous
just b/c someone is craving food doesnt make them pregnant...
I really wouldn't worry about it ....it is no longer your business! By reading his my space comments from her you are letting yourself feel all this pain and frustration. As hard as it is to be okay with such a long relationship ending so badly by dwelling on these things you can't let yourself heal from the break up. Go out and do something fun for you!!!! And stay away from reading his myspace stuff any more you need to cut all ties from him so that you can start to rebuild your life! Good luck I hope you can move on!
tonight we are going to this fish %26amp; chips van that is around the corner for dinner....they serve it out of a trailer like thing and i have to say neptunes has nothin on their food.
this place is open every wednesday and friday and the owners are friends of theirs, and although my gpa is a health food freak i make him go! wish you and the rest of california could taste it and no one would ever go back to neptunes! haha jealous yet?? ill bring you home some!
and last week she wrote this i am craving biscuits %26amp; gravy and some blueberry pancakes %26amp; some eggs so how about you get on that and ill come over and eat :) hahaha
do u think she's pregnat the last time they were together was around early june...my ex did me sooo wrong all that i had to put up with for seven years then he just leaves me for her and now i think that B#@$h is pregnat it hurts so bad and he won't leave me alone.Doe's My ex boyfriend's new girlfriend sound pregnat???
I think you sound like a stalkerDoe's My ex boyfriend's new girlfriend sound pregnat???
It's time to get over your ex and move on with your life. Just because she was craving that doesn't mean she's pregnant. My fiancee craves a lot of things and he sure as hell isn't pregnant..Worry about yourself and finding a new b/f obviously it wasn't meant to be between you two and you need to realize that.
I dont think shes pregnant...what i do think though is that your ex is a sleeze. Him not leaving you alone is great for him but it sucks for you. He's not allowing you to get over him. Uhave to fight back and not contact him. Delete from everything, eventually your memory. Good luck :)
leave your ex boyfriend alone!!! you have no business.he moved on just grow up and move on also!!! hold on i just read your other questions and you said the reason you both broke up was because he moved? try to keep your story's correct!!!
It just sounds like she wants breakfast... I mean if it was like watermelon and pickles she was craving maybe but all those things go together... Maybe she was watching an IHOP commercial?
Maybe you should stop lurking on myspace and go back to school. Brushing up on your English skills will be much better for you than stalking some .
He's your ex for a reason. Leave him alone, quit creating drama in your own head.
I think you need to get over your ex-boyfriend.
you sound jealous
just b/c someone is craving food doesnt make them pregnant...
I really wouldn't worry about it ....it is no longer your business! By reading his my space comments from her you are letting yourself feel all this pain and frustration. As hard as it is to be okay with such a long relationship ending so badly by dwelling on these things you can't let yourself heal from the break up. Go out and do something fun for you!!!! And stay away from reading his myspace stuff any more you need to cut all ties from him so that you can start to rebuild your life! Good luck I hope you can move on!
Girlfriend of 2.5 years, need outside opinions please?
Alright, to start things off im 18 and shes 17. Im in college shes in highschool. 9 months ago we broke up with each other because we were eachother's first girl/boyfriends and we thought it would be best to meet other people before we dig a whole too deep with eachother without knowing what else is out there. 2 months ago I won her back from her not-so-serious boyfriend as she says. She also claims that she's always loved me truely even when she was with the other guy, and always knew she didnt love him.
Now, It seems like she's embarrassed or ashamed to be with me in front of people she knows. She refuses to tell any of her friends (besides her close ones) that shes in a relationship at all. Also, very frequently I surprise her with random things like notes or flowers on her car - and whenever were together I plan a huge romantic day/night for her to make sure she always has the best time when shes with me. The problem is, she NEVER does anything for me, not that I should expect her too but it's always nice to feel loved i guess. Also, she refuses to be anything but single on her facebook (not that I care so much about facebook, but the fact she is trying to portay herself as single to everyone.) Finally, everytime she says she is going to do something romantic for me to let me know she cares, she always forgets/loses track of time/etc and says how sorry she is and postpones it. (10+ times, literally)
What are your thoughts on our situation?
My apologies for a long explanation on us, but it will help get me more clear of an answer hopefully.Girlfriend of 2.5 years, need outside opinions please?
I can't give you a for sure answer. Maybe she is not being faithful and wants to portray herself as single so other guys don't think she's taken. I could be totally wrong.
I think you should confront her with your concerns. Its really the only way to get an answer.Girlfriend of 2.5 years, need outside opinions please?
agree w/ firts answer
plz answer mine....http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST GO TO TACO BELL AND CHILL
You have got a valid point. She is not treating your fairly.
At one point, she declares that ';she's always loved me truely even when she was with the other guy'; THEN, once she does have you, she gives not-so-subtle hints that ALL her love is 'truly' directed at you.
Although I can accept that ppl cyber and therefore might want to say they are SINGLE, I would be EXTREMELY upset if MYgirlfriend introduced me as 'just a friend' when meeting her friends. Did you ever ask her WHYshe feels entitled to downgrade you like that?
The bottom line is that I believe that she left the other guy to return to you BUT, in her mind, she sees her relationship with you as just a temporary thing with the intention of moving on later.
Hope that YOU can read the writing on the wall too :-(
%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;I surprise her with random things like notes or flowers on her car - and whenever were together I plan a huge romantic day/night for her to make sure she always has the best time when shes with me. The problem is, she NEVER does anything for me%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;
That's because our society, even in this day and age of ';gender equality,'; still expects all the ';work'; involved with romance and dating to be done by the GUY.
If I were you, I would put my cards on the table. Tell her that the two of you are either in a relationship, or you aren't -- and if you are, that it's high time for her to start doing her part. And if you're not, that she should at least have the decency to tell you, so that you can break it off and get a clean start.
It sounds like she's an entitled little princess -- reaping the benefits of having you as a boyfriend while avoiding any effort on her part to contribute equally to it.
So, call her out. Either she ends her entitled-princess ways, or she gets let go.
It sounds like you're trying to do things to ';impress'; her or ';woo'; her into remaining your girlfriend. You shouldn't have to do that. You shouldn't have to ';perform'; for Her Royal Highness. You're a person too, and you should be getting just as much joy and benefit out of this relationship as she is.
If you're not, then start insisting on it. If she's unwilling or unable to play along with that, then dump her.
.
From what I'm reading, it seems like your girl feels burdened by all of the nice things you do for her. In a relationship, the giving and gaining should be equal from both side, in an unintentional way, but in your case, you seem to be doing most of the giving, and she, the gaining.
To be honest, you SHOULD care if her facebook status is stuck on single coz it means that she wants to have other options and be seen as ';free';.
This isn't that much of a hard case,
1) You could have time off from eachother, to clear your minds and see if you actually need eachother.
2) You could break it off. It's obvious that she feels like your relationship has become too deep and sooner or later, she's gonna break up with you.
3) Don't do anything nice for her for a while, see how she reacts. If she does anything about it e.g does something for you at last, it means that she still wants you, but if she's unresponsive and doesn't really seem to notice, she's definitely not interested.
I'm sorry if all of this sounds a bit harsh, but it seems that you've grown apart, and the answer is in your writing...quote ';she NEVER does anything for me etc...';
But hey! you're still young! You're better off going out with someone who appreciates your kindness and devotion..
Better luck
Wendy ^_______^
Tell her you're sick of her being so 'flighty' and would like her to be honest with you. Sometimes people just don't want to be alone - and in no way am I cutting you down - but this might be the case with her. If she was truly in love you, she shouldn't be embarrassed or ashamed to be with you - love is the kind of thing you're not afraid to hide.
Talk to her about it, get her to open up. You may not get the answer you're looking for, but at least you'll know if you're wasting your time or not.
Now, It seems like she's embarrassed or ashamed to be with me in front of people she knows. She refuses to tell any of her friends (besides her close ones) that shes in a relationship at all. Also, very frequently I surprise her with random things like notes or flowers on her car - and whenever were together I plan a huge romantic day/night for her to make sure she always has the best time when shes with me. The problem is, she NEVER does anything for me, not that I should expect her too but it's always nice to feel loved i guess. Also, she refuses to be anything but single on her facebook (not that I care so much about facebook, but the fact she is trying to portay herself as single to everyone.) Finally, everytime she says she is going to do something romantic for me to let me know she cares, she always forgets/loses track of time/etc and says how sorry she is and postpones it. (10+ times, literally)
What are your thoughts on our situation?
My apologies for a long explanation on us, but it will help get me more clear of an answer hopefully.Girlfriend of 2.5 years, need outside opinions please?
I can't give you a for sure answer. Maybe she is not being faithful and wants to portray herself as single so other guys don't think she's taken. I could be totally wrong.
I think you should confront her with your concerns. Its really the only way to get an answer.Girlfriend of 2.5 years, need outside opinions please?
agree w/ firts answer
plz answer mine....http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST GO TO TACO BELL AND CHILL
You have got a valid point. She is not treating your fairly.
At one point, she declares that ';she's always loved me truely even when she was with the other guy'; THEN, once she does have you, she gives not-so-subtle hints that ALL her love is 'truly' directed at you.
Although I can accept that ppl cyber and therefore might want to say they are SINGLE, I would be EXTREMELY upset if MYgirlfriend introduced me as 'just a friend' when meeting her friends. Did you ever ask her WHYshe feels entitled to downgrade you like that?
The bottom line is that I believe that she left the other guy to return to you BUT, in her mind, she sees her relationship with you as just a temporary thing with the intention of moving on later.
Hope that YOU can read the writing on the wall too :-(
%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;I surprise her with random things like notes or flowers on her car - and whenever were together I plan a huge romantic day/night for her to make sure she always has the best time when shes with me. The problem is, she NEVER does anything for me%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;
That's because our society, even in this day and age of ';gender equality,'; still expects all the ';work'; involved with romance and dating to be done by the GUY.
If I were you, I would put my cards on the table. Tell her that the two of you are either in a relationship, or you aren't -- and if you are, that it's high time for her to start doing her part. And if you're not, that she should at least have the decency to tell you, so that you can break it off and get a clean start.
It sounds like she's an entitled little princess -- reaping the benefits of having you as a boyfriend while avoiding any effort on her part to contribute equally to it.
So, call her out. Either she ends her entitled-princess ways, or she gets let go.
It sounds like you're trying to do things to ';impress'; her or ';woo'; her into remaining your girlfriend. You shouldn't have to do that. You shouldn't have to ';perform'; for Her Royal Highness. You're a person too, and you should be getting just as much joy and benefit out of this relationship as she is.
If you're not, then start insisting on it. If she's unwilling or unable to play along with that, then dump her.
.
From what I'm reading, it seems like your girl feels burdened by all of the nice things you do for her. In a relationship, the giving and gaining should be equal from both side, in an unintentional way, but in your case, you seem to be doing most of the giving, and she, the gaining.
To be honest, you SHOULD care if her facebook status is stuck on single coz it means that she wants to have other options and be seen as ';free';.
This isn't that much of a hard case,
1) You could have time off from eachother, to clear your minds and see if you actually need eachother.
2) You could break it off. It's obvious that she feels like your relationship has become too deep and sooner or later, she's gonna break up with you.
3) Don't do anything nice for her for a while, see how she reacts. If she does anything about it e.g does something for you at last, it means that she still wants you, but if she's unresponsive and doesn't really seem to notice, she's definitely not interested.
I'm sorry if all of this sounds a bit harsh, but it seems that you've grown apart, and the answer is in your writing...quote ';she NEVER does anything for me etc...';
But hey! you're still young! You're better off going out with someone who appreciates your kindness and devotion..
Better luck
Wendy ^_______^
Tell her you're sick of her being so 'flighty' and would like her to be honest with you. Sometimes people just don't want to be alone - and in no way am I cutting you down - but this might be the case with her. If she was truly in love you, she shouldn't be embarrassed or ashamed to be with you - love is the kind of thing you're not afraid to hide.
Talk to her about it, get her to open up. You may not get the answer you're looking for, but at least you'll know if you're wasting your time or not.
How much did your life change when you met your other half?
I am just wondering how much you have changed since you met your husband/wife, girl/boyfriend?
Since meeting my boyfriend 2 years ago, I have changed so much. When I met him I was studying media production and had dreams of working at the BBC. I met him halfway through the course and within 2 months I had dropped out to spend as much time with him as I could. Soon after that reality hit and I got a boring full time job in an office.
2 years on, we are living together and are talking about things such as marriage and children. When I was at college, I hated kids and thought that people wanting to get married were just doing it so they weren't lonely.
I have given up my dream of living in London and working somewhere like the BBC to work in a shop and get an average wage and come home to the man I love, and cook our tea and look after him. I don't regret it now, because when I look back on it, it probably wasn't going to happen and I would just be broke and alone in London.
I was wondering if people that are a bit older and are married with children regretted their decisions when they were 18.
I just feel like none of my friends are going through this, and I don't really know if other people have gone through this or not.
thanks for any help xxHow much did your life change when you met your other half?
Well, I met my husband, instantly fell in love with him, when I met him in October, we got engaged in November and married in February, three months later!!!
Our life has changed a lot, at first it was hard, but we enjoyed life really good, we both had jobs and we did not plan on having kids for a while until our financial situation got better, well, LOL, it never did.
Well, after we were married for five years, we got pregnant, unplanned, but well worth it!!!!
I was so ready for my new life, tired of the old one, and JMO and only JMO, there is not age limit to when you are ready.
Honey, if you are ready, you are ready!!!
Who cares what others think? As long as you are happy!!!How much did your life change when you met your other half?
I met my mrs when i was 20 i was gonna go abroad to work in the states,as i was a croupier at the time!
But fell madly in love.
Been together now for 17yrs married for 8, 3 children i work for fords!
But she's my best friend i still adore her, as she does me!
Things just happen that way!
I have no regrets!
As long as your happy!
Sounds like your life might be pretty good. Getting a nice paying job and living good is a 20-21st century concept. I don't think it has to be the only way to live. You will always regret something but sounds to me like your doing good. Yes meeting someone changed my life around as well.
since meeting my current bf i i gave up hope in meeting a great guy, this man treats me the way a woman is supposed to be treated. btw 1st guy i ever thought about getting married 2.
so smitten XD
People who stumble into relationships too young, and give up their dreams for them, do often have regrets later on. They can even be bitter.
I met my other half but followed my own dreams as well. Yeah they were unlikely but I managed to make it work. Another half shouldnt hold you back they should help you move forward.
No Change at all In fact life is still the same. Same job same place where we live nothing new
She stopped me from commiting suicide...
so, she she gave me life,love and happyness...
I have rued that day ever since !!!!
i didn't die, when i thought i would.. :D
Blimey seems like you gave up a lot to be with your partner. What did he give up for you though?! You must be regretting it a little if you have to ask this question and if your thinking about what could have been! yes theres the possibility that you could have ended up alone and broke, but you could have carried on with your dreams regardless and your partner, if they understood, would have stood by you and you could be much happier now with your dream job and partner by your side.
I think you've given up your dreams for this one person that theres no guarantee that you'll still be together in years to come! if your happy then i wont say anymore and im happy for you, but if you have to ask this question and bring up the past, are you happy?!
ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and in that time i have changed jobs from pizza hut to a solicitors as a legal secretary, i have moved out of my parents house to move into house with him, i own a car and am independent! i am much happier than i was two years ago in a dead end job living at home and living off my parents!
I met my boyfriend while getting divorced. I never thought I would meet someone so soon after being with someone else for 17 years. I was so down %26amp; out thinking my life was over %26amp; what an utter failure I was.
My boyfriend really helped me through the tough times. And he made me realize how utterly miserable I was married to my now ex-husband. I am so happy now. It's going to be a year in a few days that my boyfriend %26amp; I have been together.
I never would have imagined meeting my soulmate while getting divorced. Funny how things work out.
Well I am only 19 and my boyfriend and I are very serious. We are living together and talking about marriage and children too. You're never really to young to fall in love and want a future with someone. At least you found love now rather than when you were in your 30's.
And yes, my life has changed a whole lot since i've been with him. That's what you can expect though when you are in love. None of what you are saying is at all a bad thing. Be happy you have someone to love you.
Since meeting my boyfriend 2 years ago, I have changed so much. When I met him I was studying media production and had dreams of working at the BBC. I met him halfway through the course and within 2 months I had dropped out to spend as much time with him as I could. Soon after that reality hit and I got a boring full time job in an office.
2 years on, we are living together and are talking about things such as marriage and children. When I was at college, I hated kids and thought that people wanting to get married were just doing it so they weren't lonely.
I have given up my dream of living in London and working somewhere like the BBC to work in a shop and get an average wage and come home to the man I love, and cook our tea and look after him. I don't regret it now, because when I look back on it, it probably wasn't going to happen and I would just be broke and alone in London.
I was wondering if people that are a bit older and are married with children regretted their decisions when they were 18.
I just feel like none of my friends are going through this, and I don't really know if other people have gone through this or not.
thanks for any help xxHow much did your life change when you met your other half?
Well, I met my husband, instantly fell in love with him, when I met him in October, we got engaged in November and married in February, three months later!!!
Our life has changed a lot, at first it was hard, but we enjoyed life really good, we both had jobs and we did not plan on having kids for a while until our financial situation got better, well, LOL, it never did.
Well, after we were married for five years, we got pregnant, unplanned, but well worth it!!!!
I was so ready for my new life, tired of the old one, and JMO and only JMO, there is not age limit to when you are ready.
Honey, if you are ready, you are ready!!!
Who cares what others think? As long as you are happy!!!How much did your life change when you met your other half?
I met my mrs when i was 20 i was gonna go abroad to work in the states,as i was a croupier at the time!
But fell madly in love.
Been together now for 17yrs married for 8, 3 children i work for fords!
But she's my best friend i still adore her, as she does me!
Things just happen that way!
I have no regrets!
As long as your happy!
Sounds like your life might be pretty good. Getting a nice paying job and living good is a 20-21st century concept. I don't think it has to be the only way to live. You will always regret something but sounds to me like your doing good. Yes meeting someone changed my life around as well.
since meeting my current bf i i gave up hope in meeting a great guy, this man treats me the way a woman is supposed to be treated. btw 1st guy i ever thought about getting married 2.
so smitten XD
People who stumble into relationships too young, and give up their dreams for them, do often have regrets later on. They can even be bitter.
I met my other half but followed my own dreams as well. Yeah they were unlikely but I managed to make it work. Another half shouldnt hold you back they should help you move forward.
No Change at all In fact life is still the same. Same job same place where we live nothing new
She stopped me from commiting suicide...
so, she she gave me life,love and happyness...
I have rued that day ever since !!!!
i didn't die, when i thought i would.. :D
Blimey seems like you gave up a lot to be with your partner. What did he give up for you though?! You must be regretting it a little if you have to ask this question and if your thinking about what could have been! yes theres the possibility that you could have ended up alone and broke, but you could have carried on with your dreams regardless and your partner, if they understood, would have stood by you and you could be much happier now with your dream job and partner by your side.
I think you've given up your dreams for this one person that theres no guarantee that you'll still be together in years to come! if your happy then i wont say anymore and im happy for you, but if you have to ask this question and bring up the past, are you happy?!
ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and in that time i have changed jobs from pizza hut to a solicitors as a legal secretary, i have moved out of my parents house to move into house with him, i own a car and am independent! i am much happier than i was two years ago in a dead end job living at home and living off my parents!
I met my boyfriend while getting divorced. I never thought I would meet someone so soon after being with someone else for 17 years. I was so down %26amp; out thinking my life was over %26amp; what an utter failure I was.
My boyfriend really helped me through the tough times. And he made me realize how utterly miserable I was married to my now ex-husband. I am so happy now. It's going to be a year in a few days that my boyfriend %26amp; I have been together.
I never would have imagined meeting my soulmate while getting divorced. Funny how things work out.
Well I am only 19 and my boyfriend and I are very serious. We are living together and talking about marriage and children too. You're never really to young to fall in love and want a future with someone. At least you found love now rather than when you were in your 30's.
And yes, my life has changed a whole lot since i've been with him. That's what you can expect though when you are in love. None of what you are saying is at all a bad thing. Be happy you have someone to love you.
What do you do if your boy/girlfriend's friends are ruining your relationship?
i'm talking about that unfortunate circumstance where you don't seem to connect with ANY (or at least the majority) of your girl/boyfriend's friends. and it has happened, to me at least. my boyfriend and i have just started dating (for a month and a half) and since i have to be around his friends all of the time... i want to spend time with him less and less. i know it's not the healthiest way to look at a friends circle, since i should respect the friends he has chosen and try to get along with them as best as i can. i'm really nice to all of them and try to spark conversation, but nethier of them are especially interested in talking to me - and at times just focus on putting me down. :/ has anyone been in this situation before? how do you deal with it?What do you do if your boy/girlfriend's friends are ruining your relationship?
most of the time this problem happens because they feel like you are taking their friend away from them. and most of the time those people are immature, but what you can do is set aside days when you hang out with your friends and he spends time with his friends alone. this will ease some of the tension and it is healthy anywayWhat do you do if your boy/girlfriend's friends are ruining your relationship?
I am in this situation right now, and what I've been doing is ignoring it... its not very helpful, but i don't really know what else there is to do about it than, talking to your bf about what your feeling.
i'll be checking back for answers.
*star for you*
i dont know but u better do somethin cuz it ruined mine
please answer my question, thanks
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
You shouldn't have to sit there and take their crap. Talk to your boyfriend about his friends and see if he can't make them cool it. If not, then you two should hang out without his friends being around.
Tell them to **** off!!! Or tell it to them straight but put up a fight hes/shes yours and let them know that youre not going away!Stay strong the time with your bf/gf is worth it
why are u all hanging out together all the time? an its not for his friends to take interest in you, who cares about wat they think...this guy should be spending time wid u ALONE!
most of the time this problem happens because they feel like you are taking their friend away from them. and most of the time those people are immature, but what you can do is set aside days when you hang out with your friends and he spends time with his friends alone. this will ease some of the tension and it is healthy anywayWhat do you do if your boy/girlfriend's friends are ruining your relationship?
I am in this situation right now, and what I've been doing is ignoring it... its not very helpful, but i don't really know what else there is to do about it than, talking to your bf about what your feeling.
i'll be checking back for answers.
*star for you*
i dont know but u better do somethin cuz it ruined mine
please answer my question, thanks
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
You shouldn't have to sit there and take their crap. Talk to your boyfriend about his friends and see if he can't make them cool it. If not, then you two should hang out without his friends being around.
Tell them to **** off!!! Or tell it to them straight but put up a fight hes/shes yours and let them know that youre not going away!Stay strong the time with your bf/gf is worth it
why are u all hanging out together all the time? an its not for his friends to take interest in you, who cares about wat they think...this guy should be spending time wid u ALONE!
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